"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"you're always smiling"

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I got this comment from a woman today. She says "You're always smiling!" what in the world does this mean? I mean, yeah I have my head up and not sad looking but I mean I don't walk around with my teeth showing all the time. Maybe I laugh a lot at things and smile a lot. But I am shocked that she said this to me because it was a comment I never recieved before. What exactly does it mean? Good or Bad? She is interested in me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha, i get that, off blokes more than girls though :down:

I find it hard not to break into a smile when something funny happens, or even soemtimes meeting people.

However, i don't think this is a bad thing at all.

I realised along time ago, that girl with a nice smile = instant attractiveness, and i think it works the other way round as well.

a lot of girls say i have nice teeth to, so it can't hurt to flash them a bit.

when you smile, your more endearing to people, it can only be good, in fact i'm sure when i've been drunk in the passed and ended up pulling, its just because i've had some stupid grin on my face. :rolleyes:
 
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Smiles aren’t cool all the time. Try watching some James Bond movies Roger Moore/Sean Connery/Pierce Brosnan there perfect examples on the body language you should adopt when approaching a woman and in general. Also pay attention to there voice tone but for voice tone stay away from Sean Connery. They don’t smile much at all look at there faces try to adopt that look.

Ninja out
 
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