You're afraid of imperfection...not girls

[jeffthechef]

think about it...at my school there are guys that i would never had guessed were skilled....those guys that you would assume have no game...well those guys at my school turn out to get a lot

those guys and the jocks

So why do Jocks and (for lack of a better word) Nerds have the most game?

They know they have nothing to lose. Jocks are at the top, or think they are at least, and Nerds don't give a **** about what others think about them. They know that are imperfect, yet perfect.

So most guys who are not that great with girls are those guys that fall in between.

If you want to be successful, you have to love to lose...You have to realize you're not perfect. Rejection may signal your imperfection which is why you don't want to approach girls.

If you've seen the movie, Good Will Hunting...that's the exact example....tough ass loves to fight/ smart ass genius/ happy guy....why does he have trouble with that girl...he doesn't want to ruin his already perfect life

Start celebrating your rejections and failures...Don't try to get rejected of course....

There's no reason to be sad when you're rejected...i'm really having trouble helping my afc friend...he really doesn't listen to me when i try to help him...always sad over a girl when we go to the park...

The fix:
Go say hi to a girl that you don't have any classes with, have never met, but only have seen. That girl you get ioi's from. Talk a bit and then try to number close...


If you can name one reason (reason....meaning excuse or fear), for asking a girl out to hang...post it.

 

[Furnezz]

So why do Jocks and (for lack of a better word) Nerds have the most game?

Wha-?

Other than that, I liked your post :rockon:

 

[lalahaha]

lol this is true all the jocks usually go out with people and the nerds usually go out with other people (sometimes also nerds but definitely not limited to) and people in between don't really date that much