"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

Demystify

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Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demystify said:
Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
If women give you dating/relationship advices in that manner, yes, because they perceive you as being clueless about women.
 

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Demystify said:
Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
It means you're a Nice Guy, correct. That is why she is supporting towards you in telling you that you just need to find the right girl, rather than call you an ******* or be your girlfriend.
 

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Oooohh, she feels sorry for you!! Poor guy you are, in her eyes! :D

You show her man! :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PEPE LE PIU

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You should respond "Until I find that right girl can I have sex with you?"
:D:D:D
 

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Im a "nice guy" also simply because a lack of experience and not being truly honest with myself. The harder I try the more likely I will fail.
 

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Demystify said:
Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?

translation:

"I am rejecting you now but dont let it hurt your self esteem and efforts to go find someone else so you can leave me alone.. Since i have no romantic interest in you at all.. bye!"
 

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pooks ******** stuff ay. I guess good looking guys who are financially stable low self esteem mental disordered depressed are ugly too.
 

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Yes you're an AFC. Just the fact that you're asking such a question tells me you're very unexperienced.
YOU HAVE A LOT TO LEARN BUD!
And this is not the place you want to be. Go here:
Fastseduction.com
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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See, that's part of my problem, inexperience with women. Not just dating, but reading, and listenting them, and figuring them out. Why does this happen to so many guys? And some learn more quickly than others? Is there a right girl? "someone out there for everyone"? Or is it here way of saying your just a dud, cause isn't that what an afc is?
 

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Who cares what she said? She obiviously isn't worth your time. If you want a woman, then go for her, and if you don't get her, then it's her loss and you go after a different one.
 

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Demystify said:
Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
Ouch. That is not something I would want to hear. I've never met you, so this is pure speculation, but maybe you need a good injection of C&F; you know, an "edge". Good luck to you.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
it means you're ugly. I'm serious. The "right girl" is someone just as ugly as you.
ignore him dude lol

yes at the moment you may be an AFC
you may think she is just saying this
but she is speaking the language of woman
you can look at this in many ways
"you just need to find the right girl, but it isnt me"
"you generate no attraction in me, but i will keep you around as my girly friend to boost my confidence"

you get the jist

moral of the story:
eliminate your desire for women and they wont see you as your girly friend or a nice guy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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r0cky said:
this is not the place you want to be. Go here:
Fastseduction.com
ignore him as well lol

THIS IS THE PLACE YOU NEED TO BE
you need the right mindset nowadays and this website gives you it :)
 

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Many people have told me that I am the epitome of the ideal man they would love their younger sisters to date.

Never mind that said sisters already have a boyfriend (usually a "bad boy") and probably wouldn't be interested in me if I was the last man on the planet.

Yeah, this pretty much means they aren't interested.
 

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There's a term that single, attractive, in-demand women use to describe men who use weak, approval-seeking postures, gestures, comments, and mannerisms... The term is "NICE".
-David Deangelo
 

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It means you are only three things away from being someone they idealize and would love to be swept off their feet by.

What are those 3 things? 2 testicles and a backbone.
 

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DonGorgon said:
translation:

"I am rejecting you now but dont let it hurt your self esteem and efforts to go find someone else so you can leave me alone.. Since i have no romantic interest in you at all.. bye!"
BAM!!! THE #1 ANSWER!

This answers your question little rock! You should also read Pook's w0manese translations, there are a lot more of them. You got rejected on a slick, accept this, face it, and move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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