"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're 8 million times more attractive to girls if you have a girlfriend?

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I have a theory that if you're walking around with a girl, having a good time, women are going to have much more interest in you, even if you're a 2 or a 3.

This weekend, I was with a group of friends that included some females. I met more girls at that club than I did in the past 4 weeks of going out.

So, I'm thinking about hiring a girl to just go around town with me. Sort of a winggirl but not really...she'll need to actually have to act like my girlfriend. I'm thinking of taking her to work so that she can interact with my crush over there.

Do you think this would be effective, or am I off?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's pre-selection, which can really help. I've seen men pass off their sisters, cousins, aunts, and even mom as their girlfriends! And it helps! You're desirable as long as you have the smell of women on you, and from actual women.

But make sure the women are attractive.
 

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The idea is that if you've got an attractive girl with you then you must have something going for you. This gets their interest because they are competitive for guys. Same reason why if you're wearing a wedding ring all of a sudden you get more attention.
 

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If you are fapping allot to porn and haven't had a gf in 11 years then I'd say hiring a girl for social proof would be a good idea. You are now thinking of real solutions beyond the internet porn. You should also make her take shots with you and her together and get her to write on your facebook profile.

Let us know how that strategy works. So she offered to do this with you for some money?
 

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Dude don't hire a girl to do that. Meet girls, go out with them, use them to pick up other girls / social proof.

Do you have girls that are friends in your social circle? Go out to bars in groups with girls, and just talk to them. When other girls at the bars see you with girls they assume you are pre-selected and they will be more attracted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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