"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're 8 million times more attractive to girls if you have a girlfriend?

skinnyguy

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I have a theory that if you're walking around with a girl, having a good time, women are going to have much more interest in you, even if you're a 2 or a 3.

This weekend, I was with a group of friends that included some females. I met more girls at that club than I did in the past 4 weeks of going out.

So, I'm thinking about hiring a girl to just go around town with me. Sort of a winggirl but not really...she'll need to actually have to act like my girlfriend. I'm thinking of taking her to work so that she can interact with my crush over there.

Do you think this would be effective, or am I off?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nismo-4

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That's pre-selection, which can really help. I've seen men pass off their sisters, cousins, aunts, and even mom as their girlfriends! And it helps! You're desirable as long as you have the smell of women on you, and from actual women.

But make sure the women are attractive.
 

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The idea is that if you've got an attractive girl with you then you must have something going for you. This gets their interest because they are competitive for guys. Same reason why if you're wearing a wedding ring all of a sudden you get more attention.
 

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If you are fapping allot to porn and haven't had a gf in 11 years then I'd say hiring a girl for social proof would be a good idea. You are now thinking of real solutions beyond the internet porn. You should also make her take shots with you and her together and get her to write on your facebook profile.

Let us know how that strategy works. So she offered to do this with you for some money?
 

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Dude don't hire a girl to do that. Meet girls, go out with them, use them to pick up other girls / social proof.

Do you have girls that are friends in your social circle? Go out to bars in groups with girls, and just talk to them. When other girls at the bars see you with girls they assume you are pre-selected and they will be more attracted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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