"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Given that women base so much on our earning potential, our career is obviously a big part of dating.

One thing I've observed in my 20 year career is that over time, especially after the "War on Terror" and 9/11, the only people remaining who have jobs are the Gover-lover, "See-Something-Say-Something", Vaccinated, Body-scanned, Diet-coke-drinking types. The types who secretly report you to your boss when they don't like an email you sent that contained a joke about their frozen burrito - first offense, or who take you out to lunch and then gossip about a (true but politically incorrect) comment you made.

In 1994, we'd all go out and get high, nevermind rat out coworkers who told bad jokes!

It's a Zero-Tolerance, Zero-Humor policy, nation-wide. What a bunch of A-holes. Anything that keeps THEM safe?

What is going on?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Really? ****ing hell is it that bad?

That would piss me off. For the last 5 years I worked in a nightclub doing security and it definately wasn't politically correct. We would talk all kinds of **** to each other and joke about everything. Sounds like in a office I wouldn't do well. And I guess I wouldn't want to if I can't express myself. I would upset alot of these sooks.

What the **** happened indeed!? Unfortunately I have no idea, but political correctness really ****ed things up.

And the whole "women base so much on our earning potential". Get rid of that belief ;)
 

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bigneil said:
Given that women base so much on our earning potential, our career is obviously a big part of dating.

One thing I've observed in my 20 year career is that over time, especially after the "War on Terror" and 9/11, the only people remaining who have jobs are the Gover-lover, "See-Something-Say-Something", Vaccinated, Body-scanned, Diet-coke-drinking types. The types who secretly report you to your boss when they don't like an email you sent that contained a joke about their frozen burrito - first offense, or who take you out to lunch and then gossip about a (true but politically incorrect) comment you made.

In 1994, we'd all go out and get high, nevermind rat out coworkers who told bad jokes!

It's a Zero-Tolerance, Zero-Humor policy, nation-wide. What a bunch of A-holes. Anything that keeps THEM safe?

What is going on?
I work in an ofice wth lots of women, mostly fat bloaters and the b1tching and backstabbing is off ths scale, I pretty much keep myself to myself and only interact when I have to, they arent all like that of course but youre right, its all about keeping them safe and they will plunge the knife in if it pormotes them. feminism allows it
 
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