The best way to hold the frame (and yes if she says something like this, you can indeed still be holding the frame) is to absolutely and truly believe as deeply into your bones as possible that
Her Opinion Of You DOES NOT MATTER
Your goals are your goals. You set them and achieve them regardless of what other people want or think or believe.
Her goals for you are her problem. If you don't live up to her ideal, it's her responsibility to find another chump that does. It is NOT your responsibility to change to even adjust your goals and life plans to fit her wishes.
If you are dating a fat chick and you want her to lose weight, THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM. You either accept a fat chick, or FIND ANOTHER GIRL.
The second statement, as presented by the OP, is a cheap, lazy, and chickensh*t way to get you to make more money so she'll be happy.
She doesn't say "Why can't you make more money."
She doesn't say "I'd be happier if you made more money."
She doesn't say "You are not as desirable as that guy because he makes more than you."
She is simply stating an observable, obvious fact. You are the same age as that guy on TV, and he's a millionaire, and you are not. She is hoping this will trigger some internal struggle to both motivate you to make more money, and to gain power in the relationship, as you try and melt into her frame.
The simplest response is to simply agree with her statement of fact, and leave the burden up to her to explain her intentions.
Her: "That guy on TV is rich, and he's the same age as you."
You: "He sure is."
You don't explain your plans, you don't try to educate her on manners, you simply agree with the obvious fact that she stated.
Her problems, her desires, her wishes, are up to her to obtain, not you to provide.
Your implied message should be that your life is your life, your plans are your plans, your goals are your goals. If she likes you, and behaves, she can stay in your frame. If you don't live up to her expectations, it's up to her to find somebody that does.
She must know that if she is unsatisfied with you, her only option is to leave and find somebody else.
Of course, this takes a huge amount of self confidence, self esteem, and an honest to goodness belief in the overwhelming abundance of happy pu$$y in the world eager to welcome your johnson, and your ability to get it.
One stray thought of the need and scarcity of pu$$y, and you're dead in the water.
