"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your wife/GF gives away lingerie she was wearing for cash.. Cool or trashy?

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heres a reflective situation for you boys,

a female bartender im friends with became eye candy for a sleazy old rich guy who would come in to see her often. the guy has a history of getting drunk and sloppy, then offering girls money for things. like... letting him grab their butts or "accidently" graze their boobs with his hand as hes talking. in return, hell give them a fat tip.

with this bartender, hes even given her 500 bucks to take off her bra and give it to him. funnily enough this has happened multiple times.. of course he keeps trying to escalate and pretty much pay her for sex.

shes married btw

question is if it was YOUR girlfriend/wife, would you be excited about the extra money and think its funny how much he gives for her lingerie... or would you be disappointed and think of it as 'whorish' behavior?

a lot of the other girls who work in the restaurant say theyd do the same thing in a heartbeat... even tho they have BFs/husbands also.

thoughts?

-SLB
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you give a chick your underwear for 500 bucks? I sure as hell would. It may be trashy, but its free money. It all depends on where they draw the line, though. I'd be pissed if my GF took money to let someone touch her body though. Selling a bra is a different story though.
 
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as long as her safety wasn't an issue i think i'd be ok with it
 
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If I trusted her to be able to control the situation, and not put herself directly in harms way I'd say thats a good profit margin. But she shouldn't make a business out of it.
 
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I don't have any problems with it, EXCEPT for it's very unlady-like (IMO.)

If my wife did it, there would be consequences.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's trashy as hell. The ass-grabbing/boob-grazing for cash stuff is just being a flat out whore, but the bra-giving is just very low class behavior. It takes someone with very little self-respect to act in this manner in public.
 
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That guy is going to be pissed when he's $4000 in the hole and just has 8 bras to show for it. For $500, he should just get a prostitute.
 
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It depends. Is she going to split the money with me?

Honestly, I would never be in a LTR with a bartender anyway.
 
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nivapimpru said:
My god guys. I'm reading this and I just can't believe how low life and trashy is USA; saddam and gamora style. Not it's not ok. Think about what type of children you'll be raising.
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Totally, man. I don't know what's wrong with us. I mean, you'd think that in other countries women would be accepting cash for sex too...but for some reason it only happens in America! That's just WEIRD, don't you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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strong like bull said:
heres a reflective situation for you boys,

a female bartender im friends with became eye candy for a sleazy old rich guy who would come in to see her often. the guy has a history of getting drunk and sloppy, then offering girls money for things. like... letting him grab their butts or "accidently" graze their boobs with his hand as hes talking. in return, hell give them a fat tip.

with this bartender, hes even given her 500 bucks to take off her bra and give it to him. funnily enough this has happened multiple times.. of course he keeps trying to escalate and pretty much pay her for sex.

shes married btw

question is if it was YOUR girlfriend/wife, would you be excited about the extra money and think its funny how much he gives for her lingerie... or would you be disappointed and think of it as 'whorish' behavior?

a lot of the other girls who work in the restaurant say theyd do the same thing in a heartbeat... even tho they have BFs/husbands also.

thoughts?

-SLB
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Reflective? Nothing to reflect on. If you have to even ask...
 
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thanks for the replies

as for myself, my gf would seriously disappoint me if she did something like that. theres some things you just cant put a price on.

i asked though because it seemed so many other people thought it was "cool" and quick easy money.

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-SLB
 
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