your views?

[Nemesis]

ok...so i kinda ran into this pretty hot chick recently in college and befriended her..things got on pretty well..flirting,kino and stuff to the point where ppl actually thought we were official..lol

then came this girlfriend of hers telling me.. hey nem..she's got a bf u know..u reli shouldnt try n shyt like that.. the problem is this girl is alwiz telling ppl that she's in a complicated r/ship..being available but juz in a casual manner i must say

so what do u guys think? should i continue hitting on this girl or not? cos i really dun wanna b hitting on a committed girl..i tink its juz a bloody waste of time doin that cos chances are im not gonna get her neway if she's already in a r/ship..

 

[pressure0354]

i think i agree not to try with her. shes still with the other guy and maybe just likes to flirt. instead try making her jealous. talk about other girls you met infront of her and see how she reacts. maybe if shes jealous, shes might be into you. but im pretty sure you should just stop wasting your time on her.

 

[Qmanchoo]

I think I agree not to try with her. shes still with the other guy and maybe just likes to flirt.

Maybe she hates he current BF and nothing better has come along yet.

She has a BF and she's flirting with you. She has a BF and she's letting you kino her. A BF that's _doing his job_ will naturally earn the loyalty of a woman.

You could go so far as to speculate that her "friend" is trying to scare you off for one reason or another.

Instead try making her jealous.

Make sure she likes you in the "I want your balls" kinda way before you use this tactic. You can do this by looking at what her actions and words tell you about what she's feeling (strong eye contact, shyt tests, wanting to know more about you, interested in the things you do, and so on..)

Then jealously will work in your favor.

I'm pretty sure you should just stop wasting your time on her.

Most hot girls have good looking girl friends (and always have 1 fat one! wtf?) keep her as a friend for a while and be nice to her, if you can get involved in her social circle you'll have her to vouch that you're a good guy to her friends (big points), be instantly validated, and get some dates. You can do this on a really casual basis.

In the end?

Do what you think is right. Whether it's getting her back to your place and fvcking the shyt out of her or dropping her as a prospect completely, not what anyon tells you. I just wanted to provide the opposite perspective.

 

[Luveno]

He isn't your boyfriend.

If I were you I'd do what I want, and if she is what you want to do, do her. I wouldn't pursue her but if she's wanting to copulate then go right ahead.


If she cheats on her bf, it is between them.

If he gets hot and bothered and in your face with threats etc, charge him.

If she gets hot and bothered and in your face with threats etc, charge her.