"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Craig_87

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Its happened around 6 times this week....it does happen to me quite regulalry...but enough of that...


What does it mean if a Girl says your "Cute"??

I take offence to that usually, cos Cute can mean a Teddy Bear..or a baby...or even a mother talking to their son etc....it doesnt feel like a compliment, cos theres always the option of "Hot" or "Fit" etc.....but Cute just doesnt seem to cut it...


Whats everyone elses opinion??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do they say it? Rather turned on or interested in you, or yea you're cute whatever.. What's the tone of voice? What is she doing after saying that, where is her eye contact, what she does next?
 

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Its a good thing for a chick to say that to ya if her body language makes it appear she is interested in you.

If she does things like fool around with her hair and appear nervous those are all good signs.

If she acts like a baby however and calls you her cutey pie and laughs about it this pretty much means you're friendzoned lol.
 

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I think i always initiate the response myself......i always try and get them to talk about their friends...guys they like etc......then ill usually ask where i come into all this...cheekily...how i compare etc....

Every response ive had has never been in a negative or babyish way....i know ive seen some of them touch hair nd things, so its clear theyre interested...others are not so easy to read...

Thing is tho, can "Cute" be classed in the same way as Hot....Fit...Good looking..etc....it doesnt seem like a compliment ud give to a man.....it doesnt seem sexual in any way..... in my view anyway
 

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Oh I agree it doesn't seem that way at all but its definitely a term some of them use in place of hot.

Its a safer term for them to use as outright saying hot might make them seem too obsessed with ya and that also makes them give up some of their power too soon lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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