Your top 5 frustrations with girls

[legolas]

Hey dudes,

I've been thinking about narrowing down my focus in terms of my problems with girls so that I can easily work on myself to get better at it. I'm just curious how many other guys are having similar issues but under a different type of situation.

So go ahead and list your top 5 issues/problems/frustrations you have with girls

My list:

1. Touching and kino escalation
2. Getting girls I like to like me back
3. Keeping an interested girl interested for a while
4. Flirting with girls I actually like (I tend to get tongue tied)
5. Sexual Tension

 

[PRMoon]

1. Getting in to fights with scandelous girl's "boyfriends"
2. Girls who think they are players.
3. Stalkers
4. Fat girls a.k.a. grenades or pineapples.
5. "Hey you should meet my dad"

These are the top five things seperating me from 100 percent playerdome. They are the durge of my existance. I pray everynight for safe harbor from them.

Bonus 6. Bull dikes who steal (very specific group)

 

[AKA FLEX]

1. C-blocking friends
2. Too emotional
3. Unsanitary down south
4. Fatness

That's about it for complaints. I'm sure I could think of a #5, but those are the 4 that stand out to me.

 

[Poonani Maker]

What is "Hey you should meet my dad?" What does that mean? Because I had one recently say that more or less to me.

I've noticed that when I accidentally swat a girl's tits, she gets aroused. All it takes is that one touch and she'd probably go all the way. Women are followers in that sense. You touch as if by accident, then she don't know why but she's aroused, then you touch her again in a friendly kind of way. Then the next time you touch her, she's probably starting to touch you, then walla, you're rolling on the bed and your penis going in her is soon-to-be.

 

[nismo-4]

1. D**kteases (usually MILF's, can future sight these)
2. Ms. "I have a boyfriend"
3. Getting a spark of interest going and it fails very often
4. Fat/ ugly girls going after me
5. Girls who get interested until I ask them out/ make a move

These are the 5 things that piss me off.

 

[Rebound Material]

1) Keeping interested chicks interested in me
*same as OP*
2) Girls that have such a high pedestal for themselves
*These are normally the REALLY hot chicks*
3) Teases/AW's
*The ones I almost always fall for especially if they're decent looking*
4) Flakiness
*80% of chicks*
5) Fat chicks that really do believe they're hot sh!t
*enough said*

 

[Darles Chickens]

1. Closing.
Either F-close, kiss close etc. (Experienced this the other day with a hot Brazillian)

2. Emotions
My inability to man up and let go of my ego when girls have emotional problems

3. Being natural
This is kind of like getting tongue tied when around hot girls

4. Maintaining interest level
This relates to flakey behavior and keeping them horny


5. Giving a f**k about what they think about you
The fact that all of the above points are only issues or problems if you let them be. Look to the positives and maintain self-esteem/ self worth while striving to be a better person in the field and off it.

 

[Prod]

They get fat.

They get uninteresting.

They're offended too easily.

They can be rude.

And I can't stop thinking about them.

 

[I'm Charming]

What is "Hey you should meet my dad?" What does that mean? Because I had one recently say that more or less to me.

I've noticed that when I accidentally swat a girl's tits, she gets aroused. All it takes is that one touch and she'd probably go all the way. Women are followers in that sense. You touch as if by accident, then she don't know why but she's aroused, then you touch her again in a friendly kind of way. Then the next time you touch her, she's probably starting to touch you, then walla, you're rolling on the bed and your penis going in her is soon-to-be.

Seen this concept before:

http://www.puatraining.com/advanced-kino-tactics.html

It's quite funny.

 

[DJx420]

I'm going to have to agree (almost completely) with legolas

1. Touching and kino escalation
2. Getting girls I like to like me back
3. Keeping an interested girl interested for a while
4. Flirting with girls I actually like (I tend to get tongue tied)
5. Closing --> Only one I changed.

 

[legolas]

So I have a weird theory that says if you have a "problem" with girls it's NOT because of lack of a skill, necessarily. It's purely because of how you're thinking about it, your mindset or how you frame it.

It's common to throw skills at something without figuring out the real issue because we're looking for the silver bullet to solve all our problems and then we'll be fine.

For example, I have a problem with touching because I think that either a) the girl will be offended or b) I'll get slapped in the face

I can force myself to do it but it will come off as unnatural. I can learn escalation ladders but it's still unnatural until I let go of the mindset by reversing it or reframing it. When I do, I will no longer think of touching girls, my hand will get there by itself

So if you look at your own list of the top 5 issues, can you think of the mindset or frame or belief that you have that is causing it?

 

[Poonani Maker]

They're offended too easily.

They can be rude.

So True. In my work I deal with 70% women, and who are the only ones who call in the complaints on me, although it's once or twice a year. You guessed it: Women. I ain't never had a man call in a complaint, except for a retarded (been sniffing too much glue ~ confused retard) boy once.

 

[Rebound Material]

So if you look at your own list of the top 5 issues, can you think of the mindset or frame or belief that you have that is causing it?

so how would u reframe flakiness?

 

[Demystify]

1. Their vanity
2. The fact that they seem to like guys who are the exact opposite of me physically and personally
3. Them calling me weird without even getting to know, and them not having an excuse when I ask them why I'm weird.
4. I hate that fat girls seem to think that skinny guys find them attractive, this is NOT true (for me at least)
5. No matter what method I go for they seem to think that I'm just some horny guy who wants to get laid.

 

[The Inside Man]

1 hearing about stuck up *****es that throw away their family and husband to act like an irresponsible high schooler again(my former aunt)
2. getting the digits and finding out the girl would rather text or chat than actually get together
3 Hot girls with ugly personalities
4 if the girl asks "whos on top of me right now?" and they were dead serious after we'd been hooking up for 2 weeks
5 accidentally sharting and going back out on the dance floor trying to act normal!(more of a personal frustration that happened once LOL)

 

[Scars]

1.) I get bored of them too easily.
2.) If I know a girl is a virgin I wont F-close them.
3.) I keep hitting on girls that are illegal for me.
4.) If a girl doesn't have a certain level of intelligence I next them.
5.) I attract too many fattys, nutcases, and little girls.

 

[rdf63]

A little twist in the story and lines I absolutely hate from woman:

1. Can't go out because I have been putting in a lot of hours at work
2. Still have feelings for my ex and not ready to commit
3. It will be really tough to get together again soon
4. Why haven't you ever been married?
5. I have a friend that you would really like

 

[rdf63]

1. Woman that thinks everyman in the world is previledged to meet her
2. One day she wants to marry me and the next day doesn't have a clue who I am.
3. Keeping an interested girl interested for a while
4. A nice girl that turns into a god dam headcase
5. Seeing if she can fit me into her schedule

 

[rdf63]

1. Woman that thinks everyman is incredibly lucky to even meet her
2. One day she wants to marry me and the next day I mean nothing to her.
3. Keeping an interested girl interested for a while
4. A nice girl that turns into a god dam headcase
5. Seeing if she can fit me into her schedule

 

[Nutz]

My list:

1. Touching and kino escalation
2. Getting girls I like to like me back
3. Keeping an interested girl interested for a while
4. Flirting with girls I actually like (I tend to get tongue tied)
5. Sexual Tension

Wow, that's pretty much exactly what I would have wrote.