"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PiNkMaGGiT

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Hey guys, I'm a fit and healthy person, like I've been doing weights and aerobic exercise for a few years now and watching my diet, but I really wanna get that awesomely toned look. I know this has a lot more to do with diet than exercise so I've formulated a basic nutrition plan that I will be using as a guide. Please comment on it and tell me if I'm doing anything wrong! Thanks heaps. Btw, please keep in mind that I am a poor uni student and have to keep the grocery bill down each week.

Monday
8am : Special K with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Apple
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato, egg on multigrain bread)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
7.30pm : weights and ****.
8pm: mixed vegetables, lean meat
Note: how long do hard-boiled eggs last?

Tuesday
8am: Oatmeal with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Orange
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato on multigrain bread)
3.30pm: Go for run (approx. 2.5kms)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
8pm: mixed vegetables, chicken, brown rice

Wednesday
8am: Special K with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Apple
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato, egg on multigrain bread)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
7.30pm: weights and ****
8pm: mixed vegetables, chicken, brown rice

Thursday
8am: Oatmeal with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Orange
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato on multigrain bread)
3.30pm: Go for run (approx. 2.5kms)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
8pm: mixed vegetables, chicken, brown rice

Friday
8am: Special K with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Apple
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato, egg on multigrain bread)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
7.30pm: weights and ****
8pm: mixed vegetables, meat

Saturday
8am: Oatmeal with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Orange
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato on multigrain bread)
3.30pm: Go for run (approx. 2.5kms)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
8pm: brown spaghetti, lean mince

Sunday
8am: Special K with fat-reduced milk, juice, multivitamin
11am: Apple
2pm: 2 tuna sandwiches (tuna, cheese, lettuce, tomato, egg on multigrain bread)
5pm: small serving yogurt, light peanut butter on one piece of multigrain bread
7.30pm: weights and ****
8pm: brown spaghetti, lean mince
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by PiNkMaGGiT
how long do hard-boiled eggs last?
If you bury them under dirt, they can last a few months; hot sand like that of the Sahara will usually up that by a month or so. The shelflife of your normal, everyday hardboiled egg kept in the fridge is about a week. Don't put it in the fridge and that goes down to a few days.

(Note: I don't really mind how bad eggs taste, though, as long as they don't stink too godawful, so my advice probably isn't the best here ;))

Otherwise, I think Jenny Craig would envy this diet, though those 2½k runs are weak sauce :D
 

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haha the 2.5km runs I usually try to complete pretty quickly. I don't know how long it actually is, but I run for about 15 minutes or so and make sure I'm good and sweaty by the time I get home. Instead of doing the longer, steadier runs I've been opting for the shorter, more intense ones.
 

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you have too many carbs in your diet

cereal, juice, apple, bread, vegies, yogurt penut butter, spagettii, rice!!!

how bout some more protein?

chicken, meat, egg whites are awsome

how bout some whey?

less carbs.

i am doin a lot more running now but you have so many carbs
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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