"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don-Kong

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I think frayzer said it well. I would also add that you have to be clear in yourself and with your intentions with others.

If you are getting into bed with some chick and not having sex what message does that put across. Just don't get in bed with her if you know what might go down. I know some guys who use that as game ONLY to make her try harder that evening so that he easily smashes it.

Lay the pipe bro, it's good for the soul.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j.619

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compleks said:
Don't accept her friend request.

Call her and ask her out again. This will give you a true gauge of her interest level.

If she mentions facebook, just tell her you only accept friends and family.
Good advice here. Except don't add her on facebook... and don't use the excuse that you only accept friends/family. Just hide your profile from the public and tell her you're never on it/forgot your password/are tired of selfie-taking AWs/etc.
 

bukowski_merit

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Probably troll... but...

What exact religion is it that you can bang chicks once you get to know them?

How does her becoming your GF reduce the chance you'll get an STD?
 
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