"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don-Kong

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I think frayzer said it well. I would also add that you have to be clear in yourself and with your intentions with others.

If you are getting into bed with some chick and not having sex what message does that put across. Just don't get in bed with her if you know what might go down. I know some guys who use that as game ONLY to make her try harder that evening so that he easily smashes it.

Lay the pipe bro, it's good for the soul.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j.619

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compleks said:
Don't accept her friend request.

Call her and ask her out again. This will give you a true gauge of her interest level.

If she mentions facebook, just tell her you only accept friends and family.
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Good advice here. Except don't add her on facebook... and don't use the excuse that you only accept friends/family. Just hide your profile from the public and tell her you're never on it/forgot your password/are tired of selfie-taking AWs/etc.
 
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Probably troll... but...

What exact religion is it that you can bang chicks once you get to know them?

How does her becoming your GF reduce the chance you'll get an STD?
 
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