"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Solomon

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Ok here is the deal, last night this chick that I met out on the field two weeks ago(blond, college chick, ****ing curvy) contacted me at midnight, asking what I was doing, I was at work so I couldn't really talk to her

But I was surprised, why? because I hadn't talk to her since the club. I tried calling her twice (nope) nothing. So I deleted her number. When I called her later on she said she was going through her phone found my number and just wanted to see whats up yadda yadda.

Now I get a text message(yes right now, now) and she is going to the same club as before, coincidentally I am going as well (I ain't stalking ****, this has been planned a week ago!!!)

Any advice on escalation? would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A call and then a text? sounds like you've played things well so far and after you called twice and left it at that - it's workin for you

I think you know how to handle things - don't give her too much attention too quick - SOCIAL PROOF - use it!!
 

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Rounder said:
A call and then a text? sounds like you've played things well so far and after you called twice and left it at that - it's workin for you

I think you know how to handle things - don't give her too much attention too quick - SOCIAL PROOF - use it!!


haha

Yeah I got it, I think I'm gonna do a little push n pull here and there.

It's just usually honestly, chicks don't contact you two weeks later, hence its a first. I know if i got more time, with her, It's a wrap

good shht rounder

you go out this weekend at all? I wish i could go out on saturdays, but with work thats my first prioirty, although I do have the 20th off, its gonna be wild
:D
 

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Wassup mayne, it's your boy from majors haha. This girl sounds interested dude, make sure she sees you hanging out and talking to other girls a.k.a. social proof (what you're all about). Lemme know what happens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Solomon

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some insight on the college chick

Lto Ucas said:
Wassup mayne, it's your boy from majors haha. This girl sounds interested dude, make sure she sees you hanging out and talking to other girls a.k.a. social proof (what you're all about). Lemme know what happens.

Whats poppin Luke!!

Yeah yeah yeah yeah lol

I did that, I saw her last night as soon as I walked in, I ran into one of my boys luckily and had him back me up. I was in the set for two minutes or something got a drink. We played it cool, a chump woulda ran back there ASAP,but my boy wanted to open up sets so we scrounged around

Some highlights with that situation

I was at the bar with this professional (you know 25 plus chick, dressed older, phat ass) She saw me number close her, but I didn't give a ****.

The whole night, I would be out of her way,not on purpose but the venue was that packed that it's not like I ran into her again and again. Plus her and her girl were in one spot

By the end of the night she cracked and was begging me to come dance with her, lol, so I did, I escalated the situation a bit and now we have date set for later this week.

Will see were it goes.....
 

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2 AND HALF YEAR UPDATE(im going through some old threads)

LOL

SO I did end up banging her on our "date"(she just came over to watch "40 year old virgin" she was blowing me within 30 minutes) it was alright, nothing to brag about(Hate condoms). I ran into her about a year later and tried to kiss her she moved her headl. Last time I saw her she put on some weight and is now a fattie

shame
 
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