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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

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Your thoughts on RBF? (Resting ***** Face)

GeezerBub

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Greetings! I just wanted to ask you guys your thoughts on something I like to call RBF as in, resting ***** face. It has always been a great weakness of mine because on one hand, maybe they just look like that without realizing it. But I'm always afraid they're making that face because they are trying to communicate "Don't talk to me please!:mad:" because they don't wanna have to say it out loud. o_O

What do you guys think?
:confused:
 

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characternote

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I think they are making that face because they think they are all that.

Ignore and move on to ones who want to be approached.
basically this. Although there is a chance it's just genetic lol (I actually have a strong resting ***** face! Can't help it. Lost count the number of times people told me they thought I was angry or sad or whatever when I felt happy lol)
I think mine is caused by a mixture of deep bite, smallish chin and naturally slightly downturned lips.
 

Barrister

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Greetings! I just wanted to ask you guys your thoughts on something I like to call RBF as in, resting ***** face. It has always been a great weakness of mine because on one hand, maybe they just look like that without realizing it. But I'm always afraid they're making that face because they are trying to communicate "Don't talk to me please!:mad:" because they don't wanna have to say it out loud. o_O

What do you guys think?
:confused:
Basically a license to do whatever you want. Approach and say whatever you want to them to try to get them to smile. If they still act like ice queen then just move on.
 
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