"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your thoughts on facebook/instagram

HedoRick

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Facebook had it's uses in high school and college. Yeah, creating event pages and being invited to parties was sweet.

I'm into the bar and club scene these days. I'm a working corporate stiff. I have known people that have lost their jobs because of facebook. You cannot say or do anything without it being taken the wrong way.

It serves a purpose for some, but can most certainly hurt others. I've even seen dudes on there start to attention *****.

Not the site for me!:box:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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OC Speedball said:
Who Dares Wins is pretty much spot on.
Most of the guys that say Facebook is bad are either:

2) Socially awkward
Sorry dude, but I can't agree with this. Seeing through the attention wh0ring and cringe worthy validation seeking does not make you a social retard.

That said, I tend to agree with the fact that it's here to stay. I have an account, but use it minimally.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
facebook actually gives males female tendencies, acting just like women wanting to be attention *****s.

The like button has turn many of men into manginas. **** facebook that **** has ruined everything in this already f*cked up society
This.
 

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A few years ago, I deleted my facebook and I sure haven't missed it.

Reasons for doing so were many:

-Too much drama
-Didn't add to my quality of life
-I didn't want to facilitate attention wh0res
-Waste of time.
 

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A girl that won't date you because you don't have Facebook is a girl you don't want to get involved with anyway.

The main reason I deleted Facebook was because I lost the self control to not tell 90 percent of my "friends" to go fvck themselves.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SamTheHobit said:
A girl that won't date you because you don't have Facebook is a girl you don't want to get involved with anyway.

The main reason I deleted Facebook was because I lost the self control to not tell 90 percent of my "friends" to go fvck themselves.
:crackup:
 

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SamTheHobit said:
A girl that won't date you because you don't have Facebook is a girl you don't want to get involved with anyway.

The main reason I deleted Facebook was because I lost the self control to not tell 90 percent of my "friends" to go fvck themselves.

:up: Agree completely. It's actually kind of sad how so many people are willing to talk to you on facebook, but never send a text or call. Great "friends" these days. And also agree about the facebook ho's- won't don't me because I don't want facebook. fvck that. Most girls like that are trying to collect beta orbiters. I would know, because my sister has 2,000 beta orbiters. FYI she has lots of STD's and a ****ty personality, too. Stay far, far away from these disasters.
 

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I use facebook very minimally for genuine friends, mostly ones that are in other states.

I've seen no reason at all to use it with women.. I don't really care about social scenes/etc. Yeah, it might increase my chances of getting laid, but is it worth the effort? Not to me! I'm sick of it, don't want to deal with it, and I've walked away from it without regrets. I don't add girls I've met to facebook unless I've known them for quite a while, and not one has ever asked me about it. I've never even had to clarify that I don't add people until I know them well - they just don't ask me.
 

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I don't think about FB or instagram. If people need it for their own reasons thats ok. Just as others prefer not to.
 

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I laugh.

Continue seeking validation & fueling attention whures.
Suckerdom needs people like you.

Secure money & a lovely social life will precede if you crave socialism, so long as you're no loser.
Facebook is for phaggs & so are all it's social networking counterparts.

+ Thanks Floydb25 for the reminder, forgot to say; OC-Speedball's list is backyard garbage.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamTheHobit said:
A girl that won't date you because you don't have Facebook is a girl you don't want to get involved with anyway.

The main reason I deleted Facebook was because I lost the self control to not tell 90 percent of my "friends" to go fvck themselves.
SAME... Pretty much told all my fake friends to **** off. Only status queers and drama queens use that **** anyway.

To the guy who listed reasons why you wouldn't use FB: Bull****. None of that is true. Not ugly, socially inept, etc... Quite the opposite - on all accounts. It's just a big waste of time.
 

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Deleted mine..oh probably a year or two ago. After the first couple months you lose track. I'd HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

If someone isn't a good enough friend for you to call them or hangout with them IRL then they obv aren't your friend, despite being "friends" on FB. This is 2013, you don't need Facebook to "stay in touch". I hate that ****.

Waste of Time/ Energy
Everyone is posturing for how they want others to view them
Too much drama, especially if you're juggling plates
Can be Dangerous to your career
GET RID OF IT
 

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betheman said:
Facebook is a sanitised version of POF, Women get hit on and they can glean validation from facebook in many ways, it serves a fantasticaly efficent purpose for them, it gives them a massive adavantage over guys.
for men, it serves little purpose and isnt any where near as valuable to us, as a guy you are judged against your profile.
you either play the game or you dont.
Hit the nail on the head. My soon to be ex wife started having this online persona and feeds off of strangers kissing her ass. Eats it up and because I didn't kiss her ass and constantly tell her how hot and beautiful she was I didn't support her.
I use fb to talk to family and old friends. Fb didn't exist when I was last single.
 

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Amen to what Scars said, Facebook has it's uses, its outta context now, cause its that big! It is just a website.

Facebook shouldn't be used as a gate for insecure, under confident people to talk to women.

I use Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, I know I could easily walk away, I have done before.

I use these to see what my mates are up to, I do not post personal things on there or anything what I do on a day to day basis, no one else's business I don't think.

The days of getting women through Facebook are gone... any half hot women get absolutely hounded and if you don't already know them through social circles and are going to simply get there number, then plain and simple you will be labeled as a pest!

Few people have said it.. women have an advantage on social networks, they get more approaches than they would do in real life cause people are more confident behind a keyboard generally, this makes them think there the sh!t and plain and simple makes YOU look desperate!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chickbook: Turning boys into socially inept voyeurs and faggots since 2004.

As fun as it is to mimic the inane attention horing habits of teenage girls I resisted the temptation for chickbook. Having said that you can imagine my reaction when my girl first told me she's never had facebook. Oneitis was hard to beat down on that day let me tell you.
 
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