Your thoughts on bootcamps

[Solomon]

Hey guys

Just curious what your thoughts on bootcamps are, I know most of this site frowns upon it, but I was thinking just now, I use to go out with a fellow poster here, the guy was a great guy. Bascially the biggest problem I noticed with the guy wasn't that he didn't have game but lack of confidence. After about a year the guy now is ripped, lives an interesting life and last i checked he was banging some chick from Persia or some shyt

Which makes me wonder is spending $3000, $1000, or even $500 worth a bootcamp? I personally can't justify spending 3 thou, when I know I could go to Miami and New york in the same week and party like a rockstar or do something more productive with that money

I do know guys who have done and said it was a helpful experience,

thoughts?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

From what Ive heard, RSD bootcamps are really worth the money, but its not like you pay and just chill for 3 days.
I think they're $1500

 

[Solomon]

From what Ive heard, RSD bootcamps are really worth the money, but its not like you pay and just chill for 3 days.
I think they're $1500

Yeah RSD bootcamps I heard are intense I did hear that if you go with Tyler you spend $3,000 I heard a one-on-one session with Mystery is $10,000

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Yeah RSD bootcamps I heard are intense I did hear that if you go with Tyler you spend $3,000 I heard a one-on-one session with Mystery is $10,000

Never heard of the 3k part. I'd look into it if I were you.
http://www.rsdnation.com/forum/2

And 10k for the mystery bootcamp is just outragous.

 

[zekko]

I read the RSD forums sometimes, and most of those guys who have taken bootcamps swear by them. Myself, I can't imagine what would be worth over a thousand dollars with regard to learning how to pick up women. Maybe for some guys it's just being motivated to push past their boundaries.

From a diagnostic standpoint, I could see the bootcamp idea making sense. Every guy is different, and one guy's sticking points with women may be completely different than another guy's. So just reading general advice on a forum may only be so helpful. If an instructor could observe you, and see just what it is you're doing wrong, and how you could correct it, I could see where that might be helpful. But it still seems like a lot of cash to spend on learning how to pick up women.

Somebody here said that some instructors pay a certain number of girls to be "plants" in the venue to interact with the students. Maybe give them some confidence and a little taste of success. Some just see it as a total scam. I don't know if any of that is true, but the process does sound interesting.

 

[Uberguy]

It's up to you. You can give away your hard-earned money to have someone tell you to meet girls, or you can just go out and meet girls.

 

[Blusher]

It's up to you. You can give away your hard-earned money to have someone tell you to meet girls, or you can just go out and meet girls.

It's not that simple but that's in substance what I tell my clients during our preliminary session.

If they never had the balls to approach before. I give them a week to approach 30 girls before they come back to me.

Some guys found their girlfriend just like that after a 1h preliminary session. Does that mean they didn't need me in the first place or... that I did my part of the job in 1 hour flat?

Notice that I say: my part of the job. The actor of the change is the coachee; The coach is a catalyst who plays a crucial role in some cases. but he's in no way a miracle worker with people who lack motivation in the first place.

Like any other activity which requires some learning and practice, it's easy to let your fears or laziness take over and steer your life.

I have been doing this job for 4 years both in Amsterdam and Paris, so the subject interests me;

A good coach is someone who'll help you reframe and shatter limiting beliefs.

Guide your practice so you don't keep bumping into the same roadblocks.

He will also provide a follow up in one form or another to ensure that you've become autonomous.

My opinion on most coaches is that their trying to milk as much as possible out of clients by 'coaching' them in a group setting. This seems very unrealistic to me. 1 on 1 is a much better option considering the prices above.

Also, there's this misconception that bootcamps are for total beginners; You can benefit from good coaching at any stage of your development. To use an analogy, R. Federer has a coach even though he's at the top of his sport. why? Because only an outside objective look will give your the necessary feedback to improve your game and break through the glass ceiling.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

IDK bout you guys but for 10k I'd rather buy a car.