"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your take? Told by another girl that this other girl wants me.

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I've been told that this young B-cup breasted Indian girl has been talking about me. She can't be no more than 19. I'm 33 going on 34. This was in a place of business I was revealed this info. None of these girls are shy about talking about her love interest in me.

Should I pursue it? They're asking if I'm married, have kids, and everything. I lied at first saying I was married because I thought that the fat one was my admirer. Then I changed it saying I'm not married after finding out that it was the thin young nice-breasted one.

Why do darker women always want me? I'm white, but I guess I look a little American Indian idk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not sure what you're expecting by way of advice -- if you want it, go for it. If you don't want it, don't go for it.
 

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#41 said:
Not sure what you're expecting by way of advice -- if you want it, go for it. If you don't want it, don't go for it.
I'd like to hit it, to see if I'd be willing to marry it.
 
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