"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker

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Ok, she approaches me, in front of friends etc and "heeey..." bla bla bla

Then, I ask, "What do you mean by "here?" (she said she was leaving "here" (for a month)) She then says that her grandmother only has 2 weeks left and she's going to San Diego to be with her. I relate how I've been through what she will go through. THEN she says, "Yeah, I'm pretty excited" and "I'm gonna be drunk for a whole month!"...

I say nothing...just thinking...*this ***** is diabolical*

Why do women just flap their jaws this way, you know loose lips, sink ships

I'm just not that way. Good has to proceed from my mouth most of the time, else I'm just a vapid nothingness, I feel, uttering nothing...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Poonani Maker said:
"Yeah, I'm pretty excited" and "I'm gonna be drunk for a whole month!"
Why do women just flap their jaws this way
That's ALL she knows...

A lot of guys aren't so different either. When you say "how was New York" they'll say "it was great man! I was drunk the whole time!"

In some ways I feel like it's similar to talking about the weather.
"Crazy weather today"
"Yea, it's been pouring!"

that's why i keep my mouth shut when people ask me how my week was.
"good"
sounds a lot better than "it was OK. I posted on a PUA site about women, texted some chicks, went on a date, went on 4chan, read a book, went to visit my grandma"

Most people's lives are just empty. I'm trying to make sure mine isn't.
 
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