"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ducaro

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I understand that all you guys out here wanna be married and settled sometime in the future.. i mean how long can we go on like this..??
when it comes to settling for a woman, don't you want a wife who understands and will not change her mood when you become weak and need her support??

here are my questions:

when you find somebody you really like (say your bride-to-be) and she is a total mess in her head, yet she says she needs your support to help her get better, will you not wanna help her?? (as in if she is unfaithful to you and tells you all about her life and is ashamed about herself)

or would you rather just term her a slut and walk out??

i know many guys would wanna just abuse and call names and walk out.. but if she is really genuine does things for you.. buys everything for you.. and CAN be a perfect woman with a little help.. what will you do??

we all have mothers and sisters.. they all need support right..?? what does a don juan do????????
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Modro

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There is NO EXCUSE for cheating on you ever, you can never fully trust them and they will do it again and just use the 'issues' excuse on you and your suppose to take it? **** that.

I want a sane person, who is loyal fun and sexy

not an unfaithful nut job
 
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wayword

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Grow a pair, loseur..

ducaro said:
when you find somebody you really like (say your bride-to-be) and she is a total mess in her head, yet she says she needs your support to help her get better, will you not wanna help her?? (as in if she is unfaithful to you and tells you all about her life and is ashamed about herself)

or would you rather just term her a slut and walk out??

we all have mothers and sisters.. they all need support right..?? what does a don juan do????????
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BOOT THE SLOOT! :kick:

You can't turn a ho into a houewife! And if she's this bad now...imagine later when she really drops her act and comes out of hibernation mode! You do realize that women only get WORSE, not better, with time?

So, she cheats on you...and now has YOU feeling SORRY for her SORRY AZZ? KRIST...did someone dial Captain Save-A-Ho? :crackup:

And why do women need our support? I thought womyn were so independent these days and don't NEED us evil men anymore?

Don't YOU need support too? Or at least a woman who doesn't cheat on you? What about YOUR needs? Why is your world revolving around HERS, and not VICE-VERSA??? :confused:
 
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woods

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A Don Juan wouldnt get himself in that situation. YOU CAN NOT, i repeat CAN NOT change a woman, even if they say they want to. I've been through this song and dance. They only thing that will give a chick the motivation to change, is when you boot them out the door. If you hang around, she will be complacent, and realize she doesnt need to change, cuz she already has you. A gf is different than mothers and sisters. our mothers and sisters cant break us, the way GF's do.
Besides, is there anyone here who has sisters that are messed up in the head, that actually change with your help? I didnt think so.
We've all wished that one chick could be different, and everything would be great, but its a fantasy. I do it to myself too. It never works.
You're posting, hoping someone will tell you what you want to hear. Thats not gonna happen. You will hear the truth here. Sorry.
Honestly, the best thing to do, IMO, is to tell her to give you a call if/when she straightens herself out, and in the meantime GFTOW.
 
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realsmoothie

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wayword said:
BOOT THE SLOOT! :kick:
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LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I haven't called a girl a "sloot" (which I used to spell sluut, but yours is better) in like ten years. Awesome.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MacDiddy

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I understand that all you guys out here wanna be married and settled sometime in the future.. i mean how long can we go on like this..??
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Its our natural instinct to blow our loads into every decent female booty we can get. You can go on as long as you like, but don't value every chick you get with on an individual basis as "the one". When your young, you shouldn't be thinking about settlin down. ITS NOT WORTH IT.

I don't support women on an emotional or career level. if I had to, I'd rather look elsewhere.
 
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