"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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incognito42

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muscleman said:
If that's per year, then the number has still risen by a LOT for all men. I mean, I thought the average lifetime partners was under 10 for men (I remember reading about that somewhere a while back). Even if it's 1-2, that's still 50 or so lifetime partners, which is a lot.

Not necessarily. The average guy is probably in a string of LTRs until he finally finds his "one". So a guy could bang the same girl for 5 years and he's still banging 1 girl per year, but obviously that wouldn't mean 50 girl in 50 years
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vantagepoint34

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Dated two nice girls. As for my street game, is improving compared to last year. Met lot's of cute HB's in the street and traveled to a completely different city.
 

ka_mate

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Score on my satisfaction for the year: A+

Still with her :rockon:
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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I banged 8 this year (7 new bangs... could have had another but she got crazy at the last moment and I walked away), ranging from age 28 to 50 (I'm 45). Also dated four women in total (with a new one on the hook).

Not bad for my age, I hoped to do better, but was better than the year before.

Also, blew myself out a few times with bad game (with one woman I was dating I went from alpha to a beta-backslide to enough an extent she dumped me.... damn, I saw it coming too. Lesson learned the hard way).
 

pdx1138

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
Also, blew myself out a few times with bad game (with one woman I was dating I went from alpha to a beta-backslide to enough an extent she dumped me.... damn, I saw it coming too. Lesson learned the hard way).

I did that with one of them as well. The really gorgeous ones tempt my beta-backslide...gotta fight that one off! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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