"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your Quickest Lay (NoFap Help Please)

Manure Spherian

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Can you please elaborate why you wouldn't recommend it?
Having sex with strangers can be dangerous.

I also have drastically changed my view on sexuality since those days.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Two scenarios from dating websites.

The women invited me over for first meeting and in less than an hour we were doing it.

Another time from dating apps. First meeting I went to her home and we were part nude groping each other. Second meeting was out for dinner and went back to her house and did it three times. We had what I call a three month “porn come to life” fling.

Looking back, I can’t say I recommend this stuff.
Having sex with strangers can be dangerous.

I also have drastically changed my view on sexuality since those days.
Are there any other reasons besides dangerous? Men often wear condoms during those quick lays.

Most men desire to get to sex with a physically attractive woman in less than 1-2 hours.
 

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When I was 21 in 2013 I met a chick in a club just started kissing her straight away took her outside and told her I'm calling a cab for us

I think I took all of 40 mins between meeting her and getting my d1ck inside her ( including transit time )

One of my mates came back a few hours later and she fvcked him too

Then in the morning my mate offered her a lift home , we dropped her off and asked who do you live here with ?

" my boyfriend" she replied

It really opened my eyes to just how lustful chicks can be when they are in heat

A lot of other sh1t happened that year I was running hot and ended up smashing about 20 different girls it was a different time back then

But think it was at that point I realised women weren't Disney princesses
 

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One of my mates came back a few hours later and she fvcked him too

Then in the morning my mate offered her a lift home , we dropped her off and asked who do you live here with ?

" my boyfriend" she replied
What a cuck! Im glad you and your friend got laid but I kind of feel bad for the girl´s boyfriend. Hopefully they broke up and he traded up for a younger and hotter poozy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are there any other reasons besides dangerous?
Yes, I will try to answer with more detail later in the week, though I think some won’t be fond of my explanation.
 

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So with all the tips and stories, I'm gonna go hit this local bar tonight.

My idea is that there may be some girls who have work tomorrow but want to get laid/ have a drink. So maybe they go somewhat early so they can leave early, smash, and still get some rest before work I'm thinking pregame, getting there at 8:30/9, chat up a local early and maybe head out by 10 with them.


I'm relearning everything tonight: approaching, rapport building, escalation etc. But ultimately just tryna have fun. I'm tryna excrete this fermenting baby batter, wish me luck
 
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