"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your purpose in life...have you found it?

thedol

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Moving aside from topics just aimed at "catching girls" - after reading some stuff in general, especially David D's stuff one thing that caught me and made me think alot, maybe because I'm at that age - 24 - was...

Find your purpose in life ... and stick it and work towards it, focus on it

How many people have done that exercise and have found their purpose in life?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude04

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i tried. reading, thinking, meditating, etc...

no success.

now, i am out of college, jobless, broke, and a bum at home. my only thing that gets me through the day is waiting for that day when i win the lottery.
 

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I've done this type of stuff many times...back when my game was going through a whole new transformation path I had done this and a whole bunch of other questions...I update it every six months or so...

My purpose in life is to have as many experiences in life as possible that way I have a collection of experiences. I value every experience I have in life from typing this report to going on a day2 with a chick in circuit city acting like we live together and want to buy a new computer...

The thing is my life purpose I do 24/7 so it always feels like I'm living my life and don't need anything...which is 100% true...other stuff I do is stuff I'm interested because it enhances the experiences even more because it's things I love...and meeting women is one of them...FOOD is #1 though...
 
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