"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your purpose in life...have you found it?

thedol

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Moving aside from topics just aimed at "catching girls" - after reading some stuff in general, especially David D's stuff one thing that caught me and made me think alot, maybe because I'm at that age - 24 - was...

Find your purpose in life ... and stick it and work towards it, focus on it

How many people have done that exercise and have found their purpose in life?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i tried. reading, thinking, meditating, etc...

no success.

now, i am out of college, jobless, broke, and a bum at home. my only thing that gets me through the day is waiting for that day when i win the lottery.
 

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I've done this type of stuff many times...back when my game was going through a whole new transformation path I had done this and a whole bunch of other questions...I update it every six months or so...

My purpose in life is to have as many experiences in life as possible that way I have a collection of experiences. I value every experience I have in life from typing this report to going on a day2 with a chick in circuit city acting like we live together and want to buy a new computer...

The thing is my life purpose I do 24/7 so it always feels like I'm living my life and don't need anything...which is 100% true...other stuff I do is stuff I'm interested because it enhances the experiences even more because it's things I love...and meeting women is one of them...FOOD is #1 though...
 
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