"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your prime pulling age so far?

Desdinova

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I pulled a lot of women in my early 20s. Then I stupidly got married.

Due to more responsibility in my 30s, I don't have the time to pull as many women as I did back then. However, I've noticed that the quality of the women I pull today is a lot higher both in looks and personality. Instead of dating average bar chicks, I'm dating attractive and emotionally stable women with good personalities. Two of them would have made better wives than the bytch I was married to.

As for the age range of the women, they've ranged from 12 years younger to five years older. My current gf is 21. I've found that women with the highest interest in me are between age 22-24.

I'm reminded of a quote from the movie Dazed and Confused... "I get older, and the girls stay the same age" :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TonyBaloney

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San Jose California said:
Probably a nerd who's never gotten laid. Seriously, like I'm gonna go by a fuckin formula, rather than judge by whether it works out between us. So will everyone shut the fuck up wth that divided by two plus seven bullshit?
San Jose, Your a moron.

I keep seeing you saying outlandish ****, and I gotta pull u up son.

Firstly, you have no life experience. I had never even touched a keyboard at your age. And it actual fact looking at your age, I could say that I could even tell you that on the very same day of my life that you are on, at this time of the night, I would have been having annaall seex with my ex Norwegian girlfriend all night long. Think that all those 495,876,921,107posts that you have made have foooked your viewpoints up a bit too much and you need to get out a bit more SON.

Next time you start insulting your elders, or the wisdom of the elders (this formula which you think is rubbish, can be seen in research carried out in ancient northern european societys where the wealth resources were seen as desirable by the young woman, and elder men wanted youthful fertility) do a bit of thinking before you start with your one liners.

So there is a chance for you yet as you get older to pull some poon, rather than tap some crap, when you decide to GET OUT MORE.
 

TonyBaloney

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San Jose California said:
Probably a nerd who's never gotten laid. Seriously, like I'm gonna go by a fuckin formula, rather than judge by whether it works out between us. So will everyone shut the fuck up wth that divided by two plus seven bullshit?
San Jose, Your a moron.

I keep seeing you saying outlandish ****, and I gotta pull u up son.

Firstly, you have no life experience. I had never even touched a keyboard at your age. And it actual fact looking at your age, I could say that I could even tell you that on the very same day of my life that you are on, at this time of the night, I would have been having annaall seex with my ex Norwegian girlfriend all night long. Think that all those 495,876,921,107posts that you have made have foooked your viewpoints up a bit too much and you need to get out a bit more SON.

Next time you start insulting your elders, or the wisdom of the elders (this formula which you think is rubbish, can be seen in research carried out in ancient northern european societys where the wealth resources were seen as desirable by the young woman, and elder men wanted youthful fertility) do a bit of thinking before you start with your one liners.

So there is a chance for you yet as you get older to pull some poon, rather than tap some crap, when you decide to GET OUT MORE.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr Wright

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Im 19 and i think my average must be about 22ish...i look older than i am, these women assume i have some sort of apartment to go back to but i live with my mum loool.
 

Gray The Prince

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San Jose California said:
Holy shit... I'm not fuckin readin all that...

anyway you're trying to tell me I don't know what I'm talking about with that nerdy formula bs? Well I've exceeded the divided by 2 plus 7 thing thus know from experience and don't care what you think.


You are one of my least favorite posters on this forum. Don't you only hang out with kids in high school despite the fact a major Division I university is in your city? (Assuming that you still live in San Jose)

Also the fact that you bang girls in the 10th-11th grade despite the fact that you're in your 20s. I don't care about that formula either but I simply don't like you lol.


Edit: At least you're not as bad as ElStud. Even though he's one of my favorites.
 

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When I was 18 and delivering pizzas, I had a 1998 Nissan Sentra. I had that car tricked out. I also drove it in high school, but since it wasn't tricked out, I had trouble with girls. Then I got money to trick the car out, it was a whole lot easier to attract females.

In my hometown of New Orleans, all you really needed to attract a lot of women is a tricked out Japanese car/ Benz or just a stock Maserati!
 

LostAndConfused

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LOL whatever happened to ElStud? I remember seeing him here years ago.... He reminded me a lot like Butters from south park...

Yeah San Jose you should be partying at Santa Clara or Stanford, but I can't blame you for tagging hot high school ass if you're doing it. Them hoes be fine
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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52. Value to went off the charts. Even the young ones came a runnin. I would never had thought but it's true. Still blows my mind when I look back on it.
 

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Lost my Vcard when i was 18...every year since then it has only gotten better...a lot better...almost 26 now
 

Jariel

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My prime age was 33-upto now. But it's not so much about age as it is about finding my confidence and overcoming my fears.

I was dumped and cheated on by my long term girlfriend at 32 and found myself back in the dating scene. I was hurt and feeling really downtrodden, but I survived it and I came to the realisation that rejection is not the end of the world and that no girl I date could hurt me as bad as my ex did. Knowing that really helped me overcome my fears and hesitation, and so I've just gone for the women I want. I've gone on date after date, been rejected a lot, had a lot of sex, had some amazing experiences, met some great women, I've finetuned my game, my personality, learned from my mistakes and successes and have developed a natural comfort and confidence with women.

Being in my 30s I was wise enough to see this perspective and put a positive spin on things, whereas in my early and mid 20s I'd have either buckled and spiralled into depression or continued my life feeling bitter and resentful.
 
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