“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Your prime pulling age so far?

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For the slightly older members, whats been the age so far when you have had the easiest time of it with the so called fairer sex?

Was it you teens, 20's or 30+.

I'd imagine being 30+ all the additional life experience must help a lot. If you are 30+ would you say you could pull a 20 yr old girl easier than a 20 yr old guy would be capable of.

They say the best time to be a girl is around 18-25 and the best time to be a guy is around 30 - 50. Has this proved to be the case for you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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13-14 and i'm being genuinely serious, I was a quick developer.
 

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19, that was my golden year. a lot of them were documented on here too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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41 (Four new women, including 2 of the hottest - when I'd averaged 1 per year from age 19 to 40).
 

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At 30 to 31, I got the most play with younger chicks as far as makeouts and such.

As far as lays:

Up through age 27: None, still virgin

Age 28: 1

Age 29: 1

Age 30: Two pulls, but performance anxiety.

Age 31 to 32: 1

Age 33: 1

Age 34: 1

Age 35: 3 (PEAK) Two of these were in the same week, including an HB 8.5, my hottest ever. :)

Age 36: Hit wall. Game fell off cliff. Feel like virgin again LOL. Do not pass go; do not collect $200. Trying to crack 16 month dry spell.

Future Predictions:

Before 37: Last lay. She better be good :)

Age 37: Retire from game/dating/women. Windowws 95 is shutting down lol.
 
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San Jose California said:
dumbest thing I ever heard
San Jose - You are a negative **** - H.T.F would you know if between 30-50 was good or not for pulling. Your ma has only stopped wiping your arse last year so shut up, and dont comment on things you dont know about.

Also cut out your negative one line comments that ive seen a few of, they are usually said with the arrogance of an idiot who sits at a computer all day and has done nothing with his life
 

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this is a great thread! im very interested in hearing the results.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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18 year old Man

a. No Career
b. No money
c. No Car
d. No real crib

Older Male

a. Career
b. More money
c. Better ride
d. Nice crib

You tell me whose more attractive to a female.
 

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Older Male

a. Career
b. More money
c. Better ride
d. Nice crib

You tell me whose more attractive to a female.
I'm 30 and I have no problem bagging women as young as 22 or as old as 45. :rockon:
 

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It definitely gets easier as you get older...I think this vid hits the nail on the head as to why...

2 minutes every man should hear

Something happens to your inner game when you've got a solid # of rejections under your belt too. You stop giving a $*%&, and it's like magic happens lol
 

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I never kissed a girl until I was 16 and got a car, but ended up having sex that same year. Apparently that pimpin 1982 Ford Escort was all I needed.

Age is really irrelevant to emotional maturity in regard to relationships. Maturity comes from experience, not age. If you have ever known a 50 y/o who just got divorced after marrying their high school girlfriend 30 years ago, it's like talking to a teenager. Years spent in a relationship don't help with your skills. I think it's more like the number of times that you have 'loved and lost' that make you better. We learn from our mistakes.
 

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when i hit 21, my world changed, women starting hitting on me :/

freaked me out!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theanomaly said:
It definitely gets easier as you get older...I think this vid hits the nail on the head as to why...

Something happens to your inner game when you've got a solid # of rejections under your belt too. You stop giving a $*%&, and it's like magic happens lol
Well said!

Bible_Belt said:
I never kissed a girl until I was 16 and got a car, but ended up having sex that same year. Apparently that pimpin 1982 Ford Escort was all I needed.

Age is really irrelevant to emotional maturity in regard to relationships. Maturity comes from experience, not age. If you have ever known a 50 y/o who just got divorced after marrying their high school girlfriend 30 years ago, it's like talking to a teenager. Years spent in a relationship don't help with your skills. I think it's more like the number of times that you have 'loved and lost' that make you better. We learn from our mistakes.
Well said again!

Very wise words indeed.

up to 22 not much game at ALL...inner game...unexperienced...been with a cup-full of girls though.

22 -now, 26,(minus low point with ex ltr gf that lasted a few months) sky-rocketed and still climbin....
 

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thx for all the replies guys some interesting answers here,

these 2 threads of mine (along with the going to a bar alone one) have got more replies than I expected.
 

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Eternal_water said:
They say the best time to be a girl is around 18-25 and the best time to be a guy is around 30 - 50. Has this proved to be the case for you?
Funny you say this because I was going to say the exact same thing. Well, actually I was going to say 30-48. San Jose scoffs at this idea, but it's true.

It wasn't so hard "pulling tail" in my 20s. But I noticed that, starting in my 30s, girls wanted me. In my 20s, I used to have to seduce them, but in my 30s, I didn't have to really put in the effort. They wanted me, and they wanted to stay with me. It wasn't a problem trying to maintain the relationship any longer, they wanted to keep the relationship going. This was different than in my 20s, when I could get the lay, but they would usually keep looking. It wasn't the ages of the girls either, because I usually dated younger.

I don't mean every girl wanted me, of course, that would be ridiculous, but there was a big difference as compared with my 20s.
 

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Eternal_water said:
They say the best time to be a girl is around 18-25 and the best time to be a guy is around 30 - 50. Has this proved to be the case for you?
Absolutely. My gf is 20 and I'm 41 and we both acknowledge that we are living our best days right now. A guy her age doesn't have the resources or experience, while a girl my age doesn't have the unjaded fertility.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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