Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Your Plan for 2006?!

Malachi

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
United Kingdom
Ok i've been on this forum for just over a year now,yeah i changed my username.

So what's everyone's plan for the new year going to be?.

*Confidence
*Approach
*Self Esteme

Etc.....

I for one need to change my way of thinking and acting,currently i'm a niceguy or doormat...whatever....

I need to stop being so caring and sensitive....

What's everyone else going to be working on in the new year?..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Carnegie

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2004
Messages
109
Reaction score
0
Be more social/outgoing
Be a more dominant male/Demonstate higher value
Be a better conversationalist -practice nouning
Confidence/Humor ( ****y/funny)
Talk to girls!!-flirt/kino
 
Last edited:

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
My 2006 will be like this. (note, I hit bar-kingdom in August)

- Improve confidence and will to talk to girls, no matter what. I'm lazy..and I know I can do it..but it's ...ehh

- Have a good time talking to them

- Use KINO, flirt more

- Not be so awkward anymore

- Start working out..I've been so lazy..

- Become more ambitous towards higher schooling.

- Letting loose.

- Getting totally smashed at parties..because..ehh..I like it

- Not getting totally smashed and having wild nights and coming into work stumbling and tired.

Basically, enjoyment and improving.
 

Malachi

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
United Kingdom
Does anyone else see this new year as the most important New Year for along time?.

I for one have grown up alot in the last few years,but i've found i've made the most progress with women in general this year....so the next year i'm really going to work hard to improve myself further.
 

Distant Light

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 9, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
8
Location
New York
2006

- Lay atleast 20-30 chicks this year
- Get better at C&F
- Have 2 LTR at sametime
- Workout
- Better Endgame
- More Alpha
- Number close the hottest girls in my school

I think thats it for now maybe some i missed
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Yuriy777

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2005
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Location
NJ, USA
2006

2006 hmmm...

1. Quit Smoking (for myself) or at least give it a shot
2. Start working out again
3. More cold approaches
4. European clubs ;-)
5. Keep at least 1-2 quality side girls throughout the year
 

SDBmania

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2003
Messages
296
Reaction score
0
Age
45
Mainly, I'm going to try and start up a social life again outside the internet.

I'm trying to reconnect with old friends.
 

mrswabe

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2005
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Philippines
let's see....
1. graduate from engineering school
2. get my engineering license
3. gain 30 lbs of muscle
4. approach 100 women, at least 2 women a week.
5. lay 5 women
6. new girlfriend
 

Malachi

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
United Kingdom
Well as a virgin (Yeah i suck) at 22....i needa start working my **** out...

Thing is i've had countless ops...but i just have been too picky about the women i pick up.

So for 2006 i will lay atleaste 1 girl and not give a fk if she's got 1 leg or 3 tits or whatever else ahah
 

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
- try not to be such an egotistical narcissist with delusions of grandeur.

- realize with unobstructed realness that someday I am going to die.

- move to Germany in june.

- get rid of my past, but never forget my past.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Centaurion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2001
Messages
2,314
Reaction score
17
Location
Europe
1) pull a dirty sanchez on my ex
2) achieve a near perfect physique
3) take my studies seriously
 

resilient

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2005
Messages
1,636
Reaction score
1,366
01. Get temp contract bought out.
02. Move out of rents pad
03. 40 Cold Approachs (Jwhite style)
04. Plate Spin 4 Girls simultaneously.
05. More definitive 6pack.
06. Gain 10 lbs of muscle. (I'm 5'10" 143lbs)
06. DJ Boot camp (early 06')
07. DJ Bible re-read twice.
08. Take yoga class
09. Take ball room / salsa dance class.
10. Sky diving and/or bungy jumping.
11. Get back into rock-climbing
12. Go to New Zealand/Australia
13. Go clubbing
14. Get more friends

Ya.. I got my work cut out for me, but I'm more reinspired than I've ever been in my life at the moment. Most of it coming from this site and the great people contributing on this board. I'm determined to break the Nice Guy shell and become an extrovert that girls would be stoked to hang with. All in the process of riding myself of that dreadful one-i-tis disease I'm getting through.
 

fan27

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2003
Messages
127
Reaction score
0
Age
52
1. Learn to stay in the moment.
2. Date numerous women as opposed to getting into a LTR.
3. Improve my game.

fan27
 

Drum&Bass

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2005
Messages
1,190
Reaction score
35
Age
46
Location
I travel
5'9 - 185

Get 15+ lbs of muscle

Finish college + Portfolio

Gain Independance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
Get Fitter - More Stamina mainly! (Maybe a 6 pac and beef up a bit)

Ill do that by going for a run/swim everyday!

Use Kino Alot More

Kiss my first gal!

Have Fun

Not to lie so much!

Try to go over a week without masterbating!

Do well at college!

Kill a scotsman

Kill a frenchman

Kill a ginger man!
 

tryin 2 play

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
244
Reaction score
3
Goals...

in no particular order...

1. Not worry about little sh!t so much.

2. Let loose and be more social

3. Lay at least 5 girls

4. Finish up all my pilot's licenses.

5. Travel somewhere fun.

6. Win all of my boxing/mauy thai fights/become a much more solid fighter.
 

Bourne

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
453
Reaction score
6
- Greater then 3.7 GPA

- Be proficient in Modeling/Texturing in Maya

- Study Japanese

- Gain 10lb of muscle

- Keep working out and pushing my skill in boxing/mui thai/BJJ/Grappling

- Lead. Be decisive. Make a decision and lead

- Live my life the way I always imagined. NO REGRET.

- Master and push myself further in drawing with pen and pencil

- Compete in MMA again.

- Make friends in all places, everywhere I go

- Conversational skills to the max

- Go out every weekend and improve social intereactions / flirting with girls etc.

- Improve my sex skills

- Lay 5 girls

- Volunteer

- Help my friends and family as well as strangers

- Remove hesitation from my life by acting NOW. Therefore removing regret.

- Read everyday for 1 hour before bed.

- Travel to Miami, Atlanta and Las Vegas

- Do not loose touch with friends like I have done in the past

- Constant Cold Approach. 5-7 girls minimum per week.

- Eat healthier

- Take dance lessons

- Go through DJ BootCamp

These are just some from my list. And they are not just for New Years resolutions, I act on them NOW.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top