"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your own personal style?

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I was wondering what styles are more commonly used. I suppose we develop our styles to suit ourselves, like some people like to be C&F etc.

I personally use charm. I'm not afraid to embarrass myself to get a few smiles from people. Sometimes I'm a comeplete goof. Another side of me is a serious, tough guy.

I use to be a tough guy to the extreme, I rarely smiled and I seemed like a complete loner. I then developed my charm and a sense of humor, and found is was very rewarding. I've never been able to use C&F.

So what are your personal styles out of curiousity?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i take after juggler. i used to be the typical ******* but now im more about being the life of the party and making people feel good through my entusiasm and optimism.
 

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The style that works best for me is the dark, mysterious type, primarily because that's just my nature. Always leave them feeling like I'm hiding something. Nothing makes a girl more curious than something that they think you don't want them to know. Like they don't quite know what to make of me, I might just be a disgruntled data analyst, I might be a hitman. Whatever it is, they want to find out. Every single time, without fail, when I smile and gently sidestep a direct question, their interest levels visually go up. Body positioning, eye contact, fidgetiness, all of that changes (provided that there was already at least some interest there).

I had a friend try to mimic me, but he just got scores of girls walking away from him calling him creepy, so I suppose it works for some, not for others.
 
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