"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just wondering about this behavior and some quick opinions would be helpful.

Background

There is a female that lives in my building for the last year and we see each other from time to time, but never spoken to each other. She's native Chinese very sexy (about an 8 overall) well everytime we see each other we have about 5 or 6 seconds of Eye-Contact and its very deep, she has a boyfriend which I found out a few months after first seeing her... She also knows that I have a girlfriend as she's seen me and her together when my girl comes over my place, so we both have partners...

Current

Now yesterday is the first time I've seen her in about 2 months (i'm always over my gf's place, or busy somehow) and well she was with her boyfriend (he's also Chinese btw) sitting on the couch in the lounge area. I was on the phone and glanced over and we kept eyes for like 10 seconds while she was sitting right next to her boyfriend, I tried to keep looking but she raised her eyebrows as if to say, "what's up ?" or something and then I looked away...

This continued to happen for sometime while I was on the phone and she just didn't even care about the bf, kept looking at me... Eventually some people I knew came down and we talked for sometime until she and her bf decided to leave and as she was leaving she hit me with the EC again, no smile or anything just like a really deep glare...

I've lost all my game since being in a relationship for the last 8 months, so I dunno how to interpret the EC... interested or what ?? Also would any of you pursue eventho you have gf and she has bf ?? If it was a girl who you REALLY found sexually attractive, no one would ever know muahaha ;)



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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no smile or anything just like a really deep glare...


That's a little suspicious. Usually girls will smile or at least grin at you if they are trying to flirt. I would keep my distance, you don't know what the boyfriend is capable of doing if he notices what u are doing.
 
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^ ^ Yeah no smiles, but also not like a frown or a "wat ru lookin at?" type of look either ya know ?? Also bf is a non-factor, really ehh looking skinny type of azn dude... I not looking to disrespect anyway, not pursuing just wondering what the EC was about, tryna get my instincts back.


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