"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sexy_kuta

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so what does that make u and ur sister? of course its possible,
co workers? school mates? man hes an idiot if he thinks that,
i got many girl friends who i just enjoy talking to
 

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I've had plenty of female friends that I wasn't attracted to. Were they attracted to me? Possibly. Did they seem like it? Some did. Some didn't. Since they are two opposite sexes, there may be some physical attraction on some level, but whether they recognize it is a totally different story.
 

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If it's not sex, it must be something else that excites me. If she has the same positive attitude, that's usually enough "attraction" for me to become friends. Having the same job, hobbies or attending the same school is not enough to become friends. I couldn't care less about WHERE I get to know someone. What matters to me is WHY.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Usually people get the idea a guy cant have female friends because girls dont share interests with us....like theyll talk about their hair and lip gloss (i can't believe i know that haha), and if theres girls who talks about **** youre interested in, friends are hell possible. Ive personally had a friend who's a girl since yr 1 in primary school, and weve stayed friends for 13 yrs now, and shes like a sister to me.
 

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Of course it is possible, to be friends with someone without sharing any intimite feelings, But then again, what do I know, I have sex with every female friend I have :| Well that's just me. But then there are the few people, who HAVE to have a crush on everyone. They are annoying. Myself I know it might seem that way sometimes, but that's just how I go about my life, I talk to everyone, and to be honest, I don't like everyone I meet, I have 4 extremely close friends, My fiance, Docs (Yes I know docs personally.) Nathan, and Ashley. My Fiance on the other hand, I am in Complete love with her, and I know for sure she is the one. Anyways I am getting off topic here.

Yes it is possible to have friend without sharing any crushes and what not, but on the other hand, It is possible to share intimite feelings with everyone you know.

Payne
 

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Absolutely right ! It is very possible,but it's also very possible that at certain times you might feel some sort of attraction there but that's perfectly normal:up:
 

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It's possible in only a few cases.

1. Guy has a hotter gf or dates hotter chicks than the friend.
2. Chick is fugly.
3. I can't remember...
 

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I think it depends on the guy. I have a very hard time keeping girl friends. It's just a personal thing. But I know plenty of guys who have girl friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here is my perspective on this. If a guy is willing to argue with you about this, then ask him if he has feelings for you it will either:

A) Shut him up.
B) He will lie about his feelings.
C) He will come out and tell you he has feelings for you
D) Tell you he is gay.(Actually had this happen once.)
E) Tell you he is Bisexual, and have feelings for you.
F) A combination of the stated above.
 

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Dude, your friend sounds like an idiot.

We are all humans, and i have plenty of girly friends that i don't have any feelings for. Does that mean i don't tease em, be a jackass to em and the usual spiel? Of course not.

Let me remind everyone:

Treat all girls equally as NONE deserve special princess treatment.

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Skilla_Staz said:
I've had plenty of female friends that I wasn't attracted to. Were they attracted to me? Possibly. Did they seem like it? Some did. Some didn't. Since they are two opposite sexes, there may be some physical attraction on some level, but whether they recognize it is a totally different story.
Great post. AGREED.
 

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People who say that we're lying when we say we have *genuine* (ie have no feelings for them, etc etc) female friends are ****ing bastards. Amen.
 

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Of course it is. Ever seen "Friends" or "Seinfeld"?

I have tonnes of genuine female friends, but only really cuz I go to school with them. If a female is majorly attractive then I might feel something but it's usually just a crush. Like I have one friend who's like an hb8-9 but I got to know her as a friend, and although I had crush on her a while ago (I couldn't do anything about it since she was seeing someone at the time) but the feelings went away after time. Why? When you have genuine female friends you get to know them in a different way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm going to elaborate on my previous post. I've got female friends that I don't really flirt with. However, if we were hangin out and they started getting a little frisky, I'd be down with some nookie. That's attraction to an extent. I've had maybe one or two female friends EVER that I wasn't attracted to. They weren't really close friends either.
 
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