"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who Dares Win

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I'll keep it short since Im asking for tactics feedbacks, this girl is good looking enough for me to fvck her but not pleasable enough for a relationship.

She asked me few weeks ago which were my plans for the day and said "let do something", I wasnt ready to deal with that so I changed topic with some humor pretending to miss the second part.

I see this girl often actually cause we share some group sport activity 3 times a week, I dont mind talking to her or see her when we are supposed to meet but Im not exactly the guy who change his schedule to date or be social, I appreciate my free time doing solo activities and most of my lays come from one nights stands with girls just met....social activities worse yet with a girl are a pain in the ass to me.

I would ask her if she is up to bang with no string attached but we see each other often as I said, couldnt run the risk to create a conflict or drama within the group.

What would you do in my place?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Straight up ask her to meet up for coffee or drinks, she’s already asked you out so you shouldn’t feel nervous about repaying the favour.

And then when you go out for drinks, you know what to do.
 

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Straight up ask her to meet up for coffee or drinks, she’s already asked you out so you shouldn’t feel nervous about repaying the favour.

And then when you go out for drinks, you know what to do.
If I ask her out for a cofee she may get the idea I want a personal relationship and not just a fvck buddy deal, I need a way to make it clear from the beginning with no risk of her getting pissed off and fabricating drama where I train.

I could have all the relationships in the world if I wanted, thats not what I want and I want it to be clear from the first minute I deal with a girl.
 
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