Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your opinion on tattoos.

SamTheHobit

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To be honest i think tatoos just mangle the outward apearance. And would never get one. But thats just me.

Just wondering what you guys think of tatoos on women and tatoos in general.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm up to 16.

My right arm will be completely sleeved by the end of Spring.

All I ever get are compliments and bottom-lip biting stares from women. It's not the ink, per se', it's the demeanor I have with my ink.

Nothing on my body is "typical" flash art bullsh!t. Every one of my tattoo's represent a point in my life or an ideal I live by.
 

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Honestly? I always thought they were stupid. and they do nothing to make a woman any more attractive to me. I don't think I've ever been in a serious relationship with a girl with tattoos. Banged plenty who had them though.
 

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No offense to anyone who has them but in my experience people with tats have serious issues. There is a certain masochistic pain factor, combined with an element of addiction that usually is there to cover up severe problems at home, with parents, failed marriages, drugs, alcohol, etc.

I know this is a terrible generalization, and you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, yadda yadda. But in my experience, all the chicks with tats that I dated disqualified themselves from an LTR by being incorrigible wh0res who also happened to be bat-sh-t crazy.

Aesthetically, to me nothing is more beautiful than a flawless complexion, a women whose skin is silky, smooth and without blemishes is more of a turn-on than one who has defiled her skin with toxic inks. I've seen a few tasteful ones before, but overall it just looks trashy/low-class, plus most people who get them are terribly unoriginal with all the tribal sh-t, japanese characters, etc.

The coolest one I ever saw was tiny, on a FB's ankle; she put "©1982" - i thought that was classy, subtle and original and she turned out to be pretty cool (we are still friends) The rest.. blech
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've got a dagger tattoo on my upper arm. Everyone in section had it done after our first tour of theatre. Yeap...truly a cliché.

On a girl I don't mind them on the base of the spine. Gives me something to look at.
 

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I love tramp stamps. It makes slut selection so much easier.
 

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A tatoo on a marine makes sense,a tatoo on a teenager girl who want to prove something disqualify herself easily for anything serious.
Dislike especially those big tatoo on the lower back,girls with those look to me as damaged goods,anyway to each his own since if it was for me they were not even supposed to wear trousers too often or do manly jobs..not a modern vision from me.
 

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I'm not a fan personally. Especially on attractive women. Ugly people, who cares.

I just can't imagine any image EVER meaning enough to me that I would need it to be permanently stamped on my body. Maybe someday but I doubt it.

You know how sometimes you encounter someone who tells you that "______ doesn't bother them"? Then you know right away that it DOES bother them. That's why they brought it up in the first place. Or when someone goes out of their way to tell you how good they are at something. You know if they really were THAT good they would be confident about it and not need to brag.

I feel the same way when people tell me about the important meaning of their tattoos. If something is TRULY important to you then it would already be a part of you. Putting it on display via tattoos somehow seems like a weakness or lack of confidence to me. Like the person needs to remind himself or prove to others that he possesses a certain quality or depth of character.

It's just like the weirdo, artsy, musician, types who go WAY over the top with crazy fashion, piercings, hairdos, etc just to get attention. If there really was something deep or interesting going on there show it thru your personality or talents. That crazy look you are sporting just says "trying too hard."

I also wonder about guys who say that tattoos attract women. I'm sure they do attract a "certain" type of woman but I'm sure they repel other women too. What is more important? If 50% of the women in the world find tattoos repulsive isn't that kind of limiting for a guy hanging out on a seduction forum?

All that being said I have seen some tasteful and cool tattoos out there. Some people have good taste but many do not.
 

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Ok im not alone! just wondering what do you mean when the say they disqualify themselves for something serious?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sorry Slickster, but it is at LEAST 90% of chicks find tattoos on guys attractive.
 

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Slickster said:
I feel the same way when people tell me about the important meaning of their tattoos. If something is TRULY important to you then it would already be a part of you. Putting it on display via tattoos somehow seems like a weakness or lack of confidence to me. Like the person needs to remind himself or prove to others that he possesses a certain quality or depth of character.
Like guys who believe little green dots are symbolic of who they "want" to be.

Unless you've gotten tattoo'ed, or married for that matter, you cannot comment on what they could possibly mean to someone.

You're chronically masturbating otherwise.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Like guys who believe little green dots are symbolic of who they "want" to be.

Unless you've gotten tattoo'ed, or married for that matter, you cannot comment on what they could possibly mean to someone.

You're chronically masturbating otherwise.
Green dots? I don't get it???

Sorry if I insulted anyone. I just find when people tell me about their tattoos they do it in a way that it somehow gives them strength or pride or there is some deep meaning that needs to be expressed.
 

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I think you should broaden your perspective a little more brother.

Some people are more extroverted in our self-expression. I'm a tattoo, piercing guy. Is it solely for attention? Nope. The attention is a by-product of my ink.

No different than any type of body modification: Body building, is the closest cousin.

Moreso, my words are the most clarified method I express myself.
 

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I love my tattoos and I love the way they look on my body.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Darth said:
A badge of stupidity.
I couldnt have put it any better.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
I love tramp stamps. It makes slut selection so much easier.
I used to have season tickets to a hockey team in my city. The gal who sat in front of us had a tramp stamp. All of us were curious as we didnt know what it meant. Through one of her friends, we found out it said "fvck me" in Gaelic.
 

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I have two oorah tattoos from my days in the Marine Corps.

One on a forearm, one on a bicep.

I want to get the forearm tattoo removed, I'd rather leave that part of my life in the past and this tattoo starts conversations I don't want to have anymore.
 

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i don't have a problem with them really. i've dated chicks with them. i think it's a fad anyways, it won't completely die out but i think more people are getting them now to "look cool" then ever before. i like to be different then everyone, so i don't have any. i don't care what girls like or don't like, i wasn't born to entertain them or impress them. i'm me and i'm happy with that.:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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