"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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`your not my type`

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Another thing i would like to add the "your not my type line" is in my mind just another one of there tests to see how confident you are.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there: let's go over there to get some food

their: that is their phone

they're: they're going on the trip together
 
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I'd say 80% of the time she's telling you the truth about the way she feels (although that doesn't mean it won't be true in 10minutes)

I always treat it as a test, but sort of an experiment to see if I turn her. The odd one I have I told her I was not interested in her now I'd got to know her (just a spiteful wan ker sometimes)

I think you learn more about your game in these situations than in any other, but in terms of a result it's unproductive.
 
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