"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another thing i would like to add the "your not my type line" is in my mind just another one of there tests to see how confident you are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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there: let's go over there to get some food

their: that is their phone

they're: they're going on the trip together
 
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I'd say 80% of the time she's telling you the truth about the way she feels (although that doesn't mean it won't be true in 10minutes)

I always treat it as a test, but sort of an experiment to see if I turn her. The odd one I have I told her I was not interested in her now I'd got to know her (just a spiteful wan ker sometimes)

I think you learn more about your game in these situations than in any other, but in terms of a result it's unproductive.
 
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