"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your Not My Mother

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]"I want a man to show me the same love and respect that he would show his mother." Women (especially Black women) Across the United States of America


This is simply the most arrogant, brass, condescending, over the topic piece of garbage I've ever heard someone utter in their f*cking life. How is that a woman feels that she's worry of the same love and respect that you would give to your mother and Granny? Just because a my mother and my Granny squat when the pee, doesn't mean I'm going to give a woman, (especially one I just met,) the love, respect, admiration, and attention that I would give me mother and my grandmother. The reason being is 1) Your not my mother and grandmother, 2) Your not worthy 3) When niggas do try to treat you like human beings and give you the "Prince Charming," treatment, you often rebel against it and abuse the guy.

My mother and my grandmother have shown me all through my life that no matter what they'd love me, support me, and be there for me. My mother and grandmother took me to Little League and Cub Scouts. My mother came to the parent/teacher meetings, and the Halloween parade in elementary school. They bought my school clothes. Granny made it so that I've always had a fly ass Christmas. As a matter of fact she got me the orignal NES, the set that came with Gyromite, Duck Hunt, and that wackass robot. What were you suppose to do with that robot? Anyway....

My mother despite being on welfare and being with other problems always made sure we had the basics covered. Even though we grew up in the projects my brothers and my sister never went without anything. My mother could've definitely did some things different, but she always let us know we were loved and we would always be taken care of. Even when we had problems, my mother was only a phone call away. The love, care, and support of my grandmother and my mother was unwavering and unconditional.

For some reason, women (in their delusional and irrational minds) feel that their worry of this love and respect simply because they're in the same gender as the two most important females in my life. HELL NO B*TCH!!! AND YOU HAVE A LOT OF F*CKING NERVE TO EVEN TRY TO PUT YOURSELF IN THAT SPOT!!!!

When I gave my mother and Granny flowers, they appreciated it. When took my mother to dinner, she loved it. When I went to visit my Granny, she never turned me away. When I called my Granny, she never said she was never short with me on the phone and bushed me off. When I f*cked up they were always up front and didn't bullsh*t me.

So no, I won't treat you like my mother and my Granny, but I will give you the same respect and courtesy that I would give anybody in the street, man or woman.

It's amazing to me that women (especially Black women) have this feeling of entitlement. Where did this sh*t come from? All I know it needs to stop. Chicks want to be treated like somebody's mother and grandmother, often times they're not even worthy enough to get the same respect you would show a stray dog. Ladies you want to the same respect I would show my mother and grandmother? OK, fine. I'll do that when you show start showing me the same love and respect you would show your dad and Pa Pa.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They're gonna be hella disappointed when they figure out that you can't have "man" and "respect like a mother" in the same sentence.

That's like saying lean fried chicken.
 

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It's about as ridiculous as some of the bitter, loser men who think the world owes them a surrogate-mother hottie gf but aren't willing to make any effort to get her or any other real woman.
 

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for a moment, I thought the title had something to do with Eastenders.. (UK guys will understand lol)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flexion_ said:
Women don't actually know what they want.
You hit the nail on the head with that one!

You treat them like if they were your mother etc. (with respect) and they turn on you and trample on you like a carpet.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
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When I gave my mother and Granny flowers, they appreciated it. When took my mother to dinner, she loved it. When I went to visit my Granny, she never turned me away. When I called my Granny, she never said she was never short with me on the phone and bushed me off. When I f*cked up they were always up front and didn't bullsh*t me.

So no, I won't treat you like my mother and my Granny, but I will give you the same respect and courtesy that I would give anybody in the street, man or woman.

mother and grandmother? OK, fine. I'll do that when you show start showing me the same love and respect you would show your dad and Pa Pa.


Yep you gotta tell the b*tch that. Be blunt about it. Hold nothing back.
 

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Your mom will love you unconditionally and do things for you even if you never give back.

Any other woman is willing to drop you any second she pleases for the most inane of reasons. Therefore they do not deserve the same kind of love and respect and devotion.
 

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That is some sh*t. If she wants to be loved like I love my mother, she can push out three of my kids and raise them for 26 years before she'll even come close.
 

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yah , you can treat them like you treat your mother, as soon as they start treating you with the same respect they would treat their fathers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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