"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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your mothers oppinion about your mother in law

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If you were to have a girlfriend for a about a year and your mothers gives you her oppinion about your mother-in-law. ... Not a good one ...

a spoke to a female friend who told me that mothers see what we cannot see ....

how you take this for your relationship?....
do you end the relationship depending on what your mother said to you?

or you consider her point o view JUST another point of view ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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diablo

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Oh yes, absolutely. End the relationship because your mom doesn't like her mom. After all, they're the ones who are having the relationship - not you and whoever the girl is... :rolleyes:
 

JT47319

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This would make an interesting OPENER.

I'll think I'll try it out. To be field tested in my next FR! LOL, :cool:
 

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Is YOUR Mom sleeping with HER mom? If not, don't worry about it. Mommy doesn't know everything.
 
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