“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Your lacking a spark in the eyes

NeedToImprove

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older woman told me that today, girls want crazy guys and you come off as to much of a saint for your own good, that i have melancholic eyes

yeah im a virgin, but can it be that they see that on a guys face.i dont think that would be possible. she would say also that i give an old man vibe, that's why she approached me. she never guessed i was 39 :whistle:

can it be the eyelid shape that gives that sad vibe?

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if it physical do tell me if its not, how can i get rid of that "saint" "serious" vibe.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At the risk of having you ignoring and not acknowledging our help yet again, I suggest you do what I do... practice facial expressions.

I'm a serious looking guy, and I think it's because I've been in constant severe pain all my life (chronic intestinal inflammation). The intense pain that I feel almost never goes away and I'm sure that shows on my face from several decades of it.

In order to compensate I've been practicing smiling to great effect. For you, I would practice an exaggerated looking surprised and excited in the mirror, as if you just accidentally ran into someone who you genuinely like to be with. This will get you used to using those facial muscles. Then, tone it down and find your sweet spot. Practice it several times a day by yourself and when you run into people. Soon it will become second nature.

Little baby steps accumulate into big results.
 

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Your eyes are fine. Please read the Book of Pook and quit making these frivolous threads.

Also, different people often will have different eyes based on their MBTI type. I would guess ISTJ or INFP for you. You come across as serious because your "Feeling" is of the introverted variety. Find a girl who likes you instead of one who criticizes your facial expressions.
 

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Have you ever seen a picture of Disney cartoonists? They all have a mirror at their desks and they are constantly making facial expressions into them in order to be able to accurately draw the emotion they want the character to convey. There's something to be learned in that.
 

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[–]inspainiamaspaniard [score hidden] 11 minutes ago
Your photos are creepy.

so... i was right. it may be the braces holding me back i dont know
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Next thread will be about a pimple on your arse, relax dude. Let go.....meditate, you are wasting time get out of your own head
 
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