So, your young ( or maybe not! ) , free and single, maybe you resent that fact, maybe you want to change that status, Maybe your desperate for it to change! Maybe your still waiting for that seemingly elusive ' first kiss ' to come along.
Hmmm..... your like me in a way, I'm STILL waiting for that first kiss, believe or not but over this past few years, I've learned a lot of this little ' game ' of dating but thats not what I'm here to talk about, I'm here to talk about something else.
You see, maybe you think about the fact your still single too much, you observe how many pretty girls going around with Jerks, or so you think and so on....
OK, now thats out of the way, hows your life in general? No, not your supposed ' love life ' , I mean your whole life in general. What are your hobbies? What do you do on weekends? Stuff like that. Maybe your like me at one point in my life. Sad, lonely, depressed, desperate and obsessive and spend too much time on the computer? Do I see anyone here nod in agreement?
For those who have, I want to share with you a few simple things that will help turn your whole life around and maybe even improve your chances with girls!
A few years ago, I stared suicide in the face. Thankfully, I fought back, survived and be an optimistic person. I can still remember that feeling when I first got it, one of those spec ail moments in life. Anyway, after I returned back to my normal life ( I was in school at the time ) , I began a ' Journey ' , so to speak. A journey of my mind, body, soul and the world around me.
Where has this Journey taken me? It has taken me across Europe and showed me that people actually care, once I drop any really childish nonsense. ( Though some childishness is good for both the body and soul and never forget that. ) The Journey has also taken me to doing some Volunteer work, take part in some shows. The Journey presented to me, at the right time, what I KNEW I wanted to do with myself - namely become a Graphic Designer, for which I am in training for now.
Yes, the Journey has hit a few roadblocks along the way but that is inevitable, the whole point of the journey for me was to LEARN about the world around me and more importantly... myself. I have learned so much, for example, even only in the past 12 months alone, I've learned;
* Fear is really nothing more than illusion. face it and will die a horrible death and you'll end up a better person.
* YOU are in charge of you life, no one else. Do not give in to anyone's objections.
* TRUE Friends tell you the truth, even if it makes you feel bad or uncomfortable about yourself.
Among other things, all of which has made me a better and more confident person.
So, what does this have to do with YOU? Well, buddy. Consider this, maybe your not really happy with your life, maybe you feel like you have NO control over it and other such things, maybe you feel like ending it all, like I once did. Well, my friend, heres a suggestion for you. I want to you to say this, even only to yourself;
' I am a strong and worthy person. People care about me. From now on, I will do my best to show the world the best of what I am. No more second best! '
Repeat this if you must, force a smile if you have to. Now, when this has sunk in, I want to get a sheet of paper and write a list of EVERYTHING you WANT to achieve by say, this time next year. Now, with that written down, keep it and put in a safe place for easy reference. Get another sheet and write EVERYTHING you DISLIKE about yourself and the world around you, now I want to DESTROY that sheet in ANY way possible, perferably one that leaves you with the best sense of satisfaction.
Now from here on in. You will do you best to materialize all the dreams you wrote on that want sheet. You WILL hit obstacles and roadblocks but please, DO NOT LET THAT STOP YOU. You must never give up, even if the world is on your shoulders, do not give in, EVER. Keep fighting until you get what you want. This is YOUR Journey now and your in charge of your ship now!
Good Luck, my friend. Now go out and show the world what your made of!
Hmmm..... your like me in a way, I'm STILL waiting for that first kiss, believe or not but over this past few years, I've learned a lot of this little ' game ' of dating but thats not what I'm here to talk about, I'm here to talk about something else.
You see, maybe you think about the fact your still single too much, you observe how many pretty girls going around with Jerks, or so you think and so on....
OK, now thats out of the way, hows your life in general? No, not your supposed ' love life ' , I mean your whole life in general. What are your hobbies? What do you do on weekends? Stuff like that. Maybe your like me at one point in my life. Sad, lonely, depressed, desperate and obsessive and spend too much time on the computer? Do I see anyone here nod in agreement?
For those who have, I want to share with you a few simple things that will help turn your whole life around and maybe even improve your chances with girls!
A few years ago, I stared suicide in the face. Thankfully, I fought back, survived and be an optimistic person. I can still remember that feeling when I first got it, one of those spec ail moments in life. Anyway, after I returned back to my normal life ( I was in school at the time ) , I began a ' Journey ' , so to speak. A journey of my mind, body, soul and the world around me.
Where has this Journey taken me? It has taken me across Europe and showed me that people actually care, once I drop any really childish nonsense. ( Though some childishness is good for both the body and soul and never forget that. ) The Journey has also taken me to doing some Volunteer work, take part in some shows. The Journey presented to me, at the right time, what I KNEW I wanted to do with myself - namely become a Graphic Designer, for which I am in training for now.
Yes, the Journey has hit a few roadblocks along the way but that is inevitable, the whole point of the journey for me was to LEARN about the world around me and more importantly... myself. I have learned so much, for example, even only in the past 12 months alone, I've learned;
* Fear is really nothing more than illusion. face it and will die a horrible death and you'll end up a better person.
* YOU are in charge of you life, no one else. Do not give in to anyone's objections.
* TRUE Friends tell you the truth, even if it makes you feel bad or uncomfortable about yourself.
Among other things, all of which has made me a better and more confident person.
So, what does this have to do with YOU? Well, buddy. Consider this, maybe your not really happy with your life, maybe you feel like you have NO control over it and other such things, maybe you feel like ending it all, like I once did. Well, my friend, heres a suggestion for you. I want to you to say this, even only to yourself;
' I am a strong and worthy person. People care about me. From now on, I will do my best to show the world the best of what I am. No more second best! '
Repeat this if you must, force a smile if you have to. Now, when this has sunk in, I want to get a sheet of paper and write a list of EVERYTHING you WANT to achieve by say, this time next year. Now, with that written down, keep it and put in a safe place for easy reference. Get another sheet and write EVERYTHING you DISLIKE about yourself and the world around you, now I want to DESTROY that sheet in ANY way possible, perferably one that leaves you with the best sense of satisfaction.
Now from here on in. You will do you best to materialize all the dreams you wrote on that want sheet. You WILL hit obstacles and roadblocks but please, DO NOT LET THAT STOP YOU. You must never give up, even if the world is on your shoulders, do not give in, EVER. Keep fighting until you get what you want. This is YOUR Journey now and your in charge of your ship now!
Good Luck, my friend. Now go out and show the world what your made of!