Your Interpretation of my AFC moves

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Sir Drinksalot,

It's scary how you described your ex-wife because yeah the same things were occurring here. Intellectually on par, my ideal physically, funny, quick witted, great sex compatibility, etc... This quote really scared me

She probably has held the power in most of her relationships. Women like this are doomed to a string of unstable relationships. They're attracted to men who act like men and don't take their $hit. But their instinct is to control. They feel terrified when they can't control their man, because they can't even control themselves. This ends up with him ending it, or with her breaking him and making him AFC - at which point she ends it because she's not attracted to him!

Because she openly mentioned this multiple times. Her last b/fs were major AFCs and she controlled them. Repeatedly she mentioned that I was so different from the other guys she's dated. Usually this was said positively, but a few times she would be crying saying "I don't know where I lost control" and "I feel like I've lost all the power". She called me a control freak and I told her I believe in balance.

So yeah, she couldn't handle that. I'm not sure which of the outcomes would result but my guess is that I'd end up dumping her sooner or later.

I swear, if I EVER decide to go for a serious LTR it's gonna be with a non-western woman, maybe I'll get a job assignment to Russia or something. Western chicks are (almost all) nutz.

I agree. Unfortunately, feminism has caused women to abandon a traditional (biological) female role. I was having this discussion with my mother today. My sister (who is 2 years younger than I am) is engaged to the biggest AFC. He is very insecure, has gone through her cell phone to see who she's called, wont' let her hang out with her friends, you know the type...

Anyways, women in this country feel entitled to this level of power in a relationship, it's ridiculous and is probably one of the primary reasons this relationship didn't work out.

Anyway, grab your balls and just do the right thing. Cut her off completely forever starting right now. You'll feel better about it in short order. And before long you'll have some perspective. Nothing wrong with leaning on friends and this board for suport;

That's what I'm doing. It's difficult but not worth the aggravation. I know she will resurface and I hope I have the strength to JUST SAY NO. It will be difficult because there are a lot of things about this person I admire. Eh anyways f.ck it. Peace out players - got a date in 30 mins.