When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hey guys, about 5 years ago I worked out steadily for only 6 months. In that period of time, my weight went from 140 lbs to 170 lbs. I'm only 5'11''. Everyone I knew thought I was well-built, but I thought I needed another 15-20 lbs to be where I wanted to be.
My question to you guys: what is your ideal weight for your height?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It really depends. Any weight range where you have a full range of motion (i.e. can touch your own damn back!) and good lateral movement (i.e. movement useful in sports) is "ideal".
If you play a power sport for school or even professionally your "ideal" weight might be in the upper range at 5'11", about 200 pounds. If you're a normal, healthy guy, with a trim, attractive bild, then maybe 170-180 in ultra-lean muscle is "ideal". It also depends on your natural build. Are you an ectomorph or a mesoprph or an endomorph? An meso/endomorph would always weigh more than an ectomorph at the same height.
If you're from Europe or Asia, most women would not find the typical American physique attractive. It's cultural - the focus there is on streamline, lean, svelte bodies. On the same note, not as many men love "booties fo' da pushin'" like they do in Ameirca. I don't even think the term exists ouside of the US. America has the biggest bodies, but also the fattest, thank the culture of over-consumption and exaggerated physicality. That's also why we have the reputaion of dressing like shiat; we can't get any nicely draped clothes to cover our gargantuan bodies.
There are many many factors, so I don't think it is possible to determine what an "ideal weight" is.
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