"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your " Health " Determines the STATE your in!

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eatgel

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I noticed this.... when I use to be a 170lb overweight groub I had no energy, low self esteem and etc... But now everything else is different. Just a thought :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I dunno. I'm overweight and I do just fine. Could use to lose a couple of pounds for health, actual health, but I sarge and pick up just as good.
 
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It's not so much health that affects your mind state, but rather how well you perceive yourself. If you are terribly self-conscious over your weight, it's going to affect you no matter what. You can be tall/short, fat/thin, circumcised/uncircumcised, but if you are not confident with who you are (that is, the sum of all physical, psychological, and social aspects that define "you"), then you've got a problem to solve.
 
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I do find it quite interesting how whenever I seem at the top of my game and getting some girls I never deal with acne that much, yet when I'm stressed out and have low self esteem I get some.

I remember 2 years ago I had a great gf for 2 months and there wasnt a problem in the world, then I think it was literally not even a week after she dumped me I broke out. Ha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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