Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your hardest rejection

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Legend

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my hardest rejection


well to make a long story short...i asked this HB hang out sometime....she replied "You need to return to earth"

I loved it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The lowdown:

I asked for advice on the forum, shortly after my first arrival here, regarding asking out a girl I worked with, that was 21, while I was 15 at the time, LOL. So the whole forum basically says "Forget about it." I think to myself "They msut be wrong," and I ask her out shortly after:

"Do you like to bowl?"
"yes."
"Want to go bowling tomorrow night?"
"No!"
"Ok."

Then I walked away. Hahahahahahaha, was upset for about 1 minute though, so it was all good. I just laugh about it all...a 15 year old asking out a 21 year old...wow.

By the way, I got kind of lucky, she's a good girl, and didn't spread it around the workplace...that could have been painful.
 
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