"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your hardest rejection

Legend

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my hardest rejection


well to make a long story short...i asked this HB hang out sometime....she replied "You need to return to earth"

I loved it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ryan killa

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The lowdown:

I asked for advice on the forum, shortly after my first arrival here, regarding asking out a girl I worked with, that was 21, while I was 15 at the time, LOL. So the whole forum basically says "Forget about it." I think to myself "They msut be wrong," and I ask her out shortly after:

"Do you like to bowl?"
"yes."
"Want to go bowling tomorrow night?"
"No!"
"Ok."

Then I walked away. Hahahahahahaha, was upset for about 1 minute though, so it was all good. I just laugh about it all...a 15 year old asking out a 21 year old...wow.

By the way, I got kind of lucky, she's a good girl, and didn't spread it around the workplace...that could have been painful.
 
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