Your Good/Bad Qualities of women..

[SilverSonnet]

Well, I recently read a post on having moderately high standards, so I'm gonna post mine(although I'm 14, at least I'll have them ready for when I'm ready to start dating)

So here are mine...Feel free to post your own.


Qualities Of Women



Things I DO Want:

• Good looking
• Nice/ Easy Going
• Good sense of humour
• Intelligent
• Slim/Fit/Toned
• Adventurous
• Interesting
• Creative/Imaginative
• Free
• Powerful(Does her own things)
• Loyal
• Kind person
• Likes to cuddle/kiss (not just fvck)


Things I DO NOT Want:

• Attention *****
• Stupid/Slow
• Ugly
• Clingy/Needy
• Boring
• Gold Digger
• Arrogant/Up her own arse
• Extremely shy
• Sluttish
• Selfish Person/Only out for herself
• Uses me as a trophy boyfriend
• Gets mardy easily/Insults people randomly
• Always asking for stuff/money from me
• High expectations of me

 

[Groovy]

Bewere! If you want a women with these qualities, that means you are going to have to develop them in yourself first.

I'm very attracted to girls who like to have fun (playful) and are friendly. Laid back, good mood, etc. No stresses!

It's preety obvious, at least in my head. Nature made women to be submissive, so that's what attracts man. And one of the main points of life (besides surviving) is to prevent boredom. But I prefer to leave that one to be debated by the philosophers...

... And I stop here. For me it makes no purpose to make a "list". As I'm not in this world to live up to anybody's expectations, I also don't expect anyone to live up to mines.

Looking for someone with all good qualities I admire would be a little ambitious by my part. I don't even know if I wanted to. I like some "flaws". For me it seems like you are describing a "perfect" women, and I'm not perfect myself, so I don't want one.

 

[shinko]

Well, I recently read a post on having moderately high standards, so I'm gonna post mine(although I'm 14, at least I'll have them ready for when I'm ready to start dating)

So here are mine...Feel free to post your own.


Qualities Of Women



Things I DO Want:

• Good looking
• Nice/ Easy Going
• Good sense of humour
• Intelligent
• Slim/Fit/Toned
• Adventurous
• Interesting
• Creative/Imaginative
• Free
• Powerful(Does her own things)
• Loyal
• Kind person
• Likes to cuddle/kiss (not just fvck)


Things I DO NOT Want:

• Attention *****
• Stupid/Slow
• Ugly
• Clingy/Needy
• Boring
• Gold Digger
• Arrogant/Up her own arse
• Extremely shy
• Sluttish
• Selfish Person/Only out for herself
• Uses me as a trophy boyfriend
• Gets mardy easily/Insults people randomly
• Always asking for stuff/money from me
• High expectations of me

I did a similar thing when i was around your age and have kept at it ever since,Good on you man. It's important to develop what your looking for in a person and what standards your going to accept and not. But as groovy said, you can't expect any one of those things unless you take the time out to develop those qualities for yourself. Your'll also find as you grow up, have experiences and mature that your list will grow and change as your tastes and desires do, mine did anyway. As a motivational tool once you got that list stick it on your wall and read it whenever you remember. Final thing, as time goes on work through your points now and again and decide for yourself which points on your list you believe to be absolutley neccessary in a girl and what points your willing to bend on.

 

[ZenGodMod]

Things I DO NOT Want:
• High expectations of me

Women should have high expectations, it's a quality that won't make you a unless fat lazy beer drinking scum and make you strive to be better then what you are already.

Acceptance with a dose of expectation (simply because she can see your potential) is a valuable quality.

I think what you meant was "pushy".

 

[slaog]

Good list SilverSonnet!

Bewere! If you want a women with these qualities, that means you are going to have to develop them in yourself first.

I'm very attracted to girls who like to have fun (playful) and are friendly. Laid back, good mood, etc. No stresses!

It's preety obvious, at least in my head. Nature made women to be submissive, so that's what attracts man. And one of the main points of life (besides surviving) is to prevent boredom. But I prefer to leave that one to be debated by the philosophers...

... And I stop here. For me it makes no purpose to make a "list". As I'm not in this world to live up to anybody's expectations, I also don't expect anyone to live up to mines.

Looking for someone with all good qualities I admire would be a little ambitious by my part. I don't even know if I wanted to. I like some "flaws". For me it seems like you are describing a "perfect" women, and I'm not perfect myself, so I don't want one.

I started a thread in the tips section yesterday about the advantages of listing out the qualities you want in a relationship and how it improves your inner game. You should aim for perfection because if you aim lower you'll end up with lower.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143338

 

[Groovy]

I don't aim for perfection, I aim for my best self... And for me the "perfect" woman is someone who is happy fun to hang around and is sexual... I don't need to aim for perfetion because 1. I'll never reach it 2. I don't want it.

This arguement depends on your definition of perfection too...

 

[Planiryywer]

This posts is very informative. Thank you!

 

[Between_The_Lines]

You're still young, so as shinko wrote, you'll find that your list will change as you get older. I used to really want a highly opinionated, well-informed, deep thinker type around my mid 20s, and after finding out for myself that those attributes are typically attached to either feminists, tyrants, or trolls, I downgraded that on my list of priorities and promoted good energy, positivity, and femininity to higher levels on my own list. The key is experience, lots and lots of experience. You want to put your list to the test and to see for yourself whether or not what you've listed is what you really want, if you value it as much as you say you do, and if there are new characteristics you were previously unaware of that ought to go on the list. Good to see you gunning for what you want.