"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Everyone has a few of these. The stuff you pull out of the hat with almost every girl that works almost always.


Here is some of mine:


The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.


The high five take away. Get pumped, say high five and as she goes for it pull away. I usually high five normally a time or two then do this - you SHOULD high five normally next though to ease it back.




Those two I use all the time. What are yours?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cool the first one seems like something fun that I would do, but the 2nd ehh....maybe that does work for you.

I know I wouldnt appreciate though I'd just feel stupid
 

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Gather all of her hair in your hand at the back of her head and give it a little squeeze. This gives her a little premonition of what is to come.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Was it one night only? ;)


I used "I only like short/tall girls" depends on what she is and saying the opposite.

so if she is short - go tall.

worked
 

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Create and then teach her you guys' secret handshake... a little cheesy but depending on her personality it will work and gives you guys something that is A) shared just between you two and B) easy kino. If you're at all clever you can make it pretty humorous and use it as a good opportunity to make her laugh/feel good, and then anchor that in the future as well.
 

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surprise buttsects. works every time. I kid, i kid.

I do player supremes animal color water game. It's a great segway to talking about sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74 said:
surprise buttsects. works every time. I kid, i kid.

I do player supremes animal color water game. It's a great segway to talking about sex.
Got a link to that game, it sounds hilarious?
 

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Funny that only 5 people have something they actually use consistently, what are the rest of you doing?
 

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intentionally get caught starring at a her and then smiling and then looking away thats the best
 

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BeyondCharm said:
Got a link to that game, it sounds hilarious?
I'm sure supreme won't mind me sharing it, he's put it in several of his podcast. I pose it at a physiological game I learned from a friend.

You ask her to pick an animal and describe it in three words. ex. Tiger, strong, dangerous, stealthy. Then a color. Ex. Purple, royal, passionate, deep. Then a body of water. ex. Ocean. (these are mine btw)

Then you interpret it for her. The animal is how other people see you, and you explain how her discription fits...the color is how she sees herself (again you explain how she views her self using desrcriptive language) and the body of water is a description of her sex drive ex. Ocean = deep and unending full of mystery.

then you can segway into how well it matches up and talk about what ever seems to entice her more...if shes really excited about how other people see her...talk about that and then move to the body of water/sex drive...or if she's focused on that...go straight to sex talk and ask her about her sex drive and what she thinks that means...etc. etc. Props to player supreme for that one. (www.zenmack.com) Not meaning to spam..but gotta give props where props are due.

I've even used this over text message...and then tell them I will interpret their results when they see me in person...building up some tension and making them wait/work for it. fun times.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Heh. A girl actually tried a game like that on me, name your favourite, second favourite and third favourite animal, and then she tried to explain; the first is how I see myself, second how others see me, third who I really am.

Of course she sucked at it (no yarn spinning whatsoever), and I crushed the game when I told her the animals were just my BBQ order of preference (sheep, cow, deer).
 

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Oxide said:
Everyone has a few of these. The stuff you pull out of the hat with almost every girl that works almost always.


Here is some of mine:


The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.


The high five take away. Get pumped, say high five and as she goes for it pull away. I usually high five normally a time or two then do this - you SHOULD high five normally next though to ease it back.




Those two I use all the time. What are yours?
I like these...I forgot about the first one, but I recently started doing the second one which is the most fun. It's even funnier when the girl does something funny and you act really into it and raise your hand for a high five, then take it away and run you hand through your hair.

One that I like to do is every once in a while is purse my lips together for a kiss and when the girl comes in real close, turn my head real fast with a slight smile as if something else caught my attention.
 

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bish0p said:
I like these...I forgot about the first one, but I recently started doing the second one which is the most fun. It's even funnier when the girl does something funny and you act really into it and raise your hand for a high five, then take it away and run you hand through your hair.

One that I like to do is every once in a while is purse my lips together for a kiss and when the girl comes in real close, turn my head real fast with a slight smile as if something else caught my attention.

Hehe, that's also a fun one.

Anyone else got kino-ish examples?


I used to do a lot of tickling and buckrubs, but that's with girls you kinda know.

When I kiss, I always stroke the back of her neck, I think wildfire confirmed that led to the girl falling much harder.
 

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Pulling them in by the waist with a smile and good eye contact for the first kiss has been dynamite for me. Then I like to stroke her face/hair/neck.
 

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SandHawk said:
"I don't do onenight stands".

I've used it twice, and banged the girl in both cases, within 4 hours of meeting her.
Yeah I imagine that would work because she wants to prove you will make an exception for her. It's like reverse psychology.

One thing I've done a bit like this is when I've been making out with a girl at a club at the end of the night and it seems like things are escalating and she might go home with me, I say "We shouldn't be doing this" and make up some BS excuse. It seems to make them go crazy and want me even more. Then I act like she's lucky that I make an exception for her so I can take her home.


bish0p said:
One that I like to do is every once in a while is purse my lips together for a kiss and when the girl comes in real close, turn my head real fast with a slight smile as if something else caught my attention.
That's a good one. My variation of that is to lean in like I'm about to kiss her, then when she leans in and we're close I pull back suddenly and smile.

If you do this it might end up with her grabbing your head and pulling you towards her because she feels she HAS to kiss you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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