Your Goals for the Summer of 2014

[Maximus Rex]

1) Conquer my approach anxiety.

2) Make approaching women automatic and ingrained the 3 Second Rule into my psyche.

3) Keep the momentum going after the open.

4) Go out to a club or a lounge at least six times during the summer.

5) Get laid.

 

[jurry]

My goal:

Put into practice the reality that you don't need anything else, stop chasing. You are complete. A pvssy is not going to fulfill you (in fact it will likely destroy you if you are weak). The perfect career is not going to fulfill you. Do not apologize or be afraid of who you are, embrace it and eliminate the inner voice of doubt and self-criticism. Let yourself be awkward, say something weird, and fail miserably - and god damn OWN IT. But do not hang up on failure or success, be disciplined and stay in the present! Accept that you are one and the same as all; there is no other, we are all just dancing around in liquid love. Let this rigid, endlessly analyzing "self" go.

 

[MtnMan]

My goal:

Put into practice the reality that you don't need anything else, stop chasing. You are complete. A pvssy is not going to fulfill you (in fact it will likely destroy you if you are weak). The perfect career is not going to fulfill you. Do not apologize or be afraid of who you are, embrace it and eliminate the inner voice of doubt and self-criticism. Let yourself be awkward, say something weird, and fail miserably - and god damn OWN IT. But do not hang up on failure or success, be disciplined and stay in the present! Accept that you are one and the same as all; there is no other, we are all just dancing around in liquid love. Let this rigid, endlessly analyzing "self" go.

did you just scan my brain and download it onto this forum? damn!

 

[Don-Kong]

1. Learn to conquer 'The fever' when I become involved & infatuated with hot chicks

2. Experiment with different approaches & use CBT graded exposure therapy to minimise anxiety

3. Log mistakes, learn, produce field reports & implement winning strategies

4. Meditate and keep the hottest women ever in my imagination, this serves to remind me that all other women ain't worth more than my own inner happiness

5. Get more plates

 

[devilkingx2]

2) Make approaching women automatic and ingrained the 3 Second Rule into my psyche.
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it always takes a lot longer than 3 seconds to think of what I'm gonna say

 

[Redwood]

1. Keep a DJ journal of all the experiences I've been through.
2. Make sure I'm financially situated.
3. Focus more on college.
4. Keep approach anxiety in check. (I have relapses here and there)
5. Conquer self-defeating thoughts, negativity, and people who try to dismantle you.
6. Focus more on exercising and healthy eating habits.
7. Definitely read more, immerse myself in new things everyday to make sure everything feels fresh and organic.

 

[Eph]

My goals for the Summer?
1. Increase number of users for project I'm just about done with
2. Increase average usage time for said project
3. Start next project (will probably end up being a game)
4. Get a job as an Easy Tech at Staples
5. Get Driver's Permit
6. Save up for car
7. Take a drivers ed class to fulfill requirements in order to get driving licence
8. Study a lot in order to pass Network+, Security+, CCENT, HP, Microsoft, and a few other IT certifications before the upcoming school year ends
9. Eat more in order to get to goal weight
10. Work out
11. Work on game whenever possible
12. Upgrade everything - phone, computer, tv, game console, etc. Total room makeover
13. Have fun

I've got a lot planned, as you can see. If I accomplish nothing else, I want to get a job in the IT field. My master plan for life demands it (and a car) before the (school) year's end.

 

[skinnyguy]

1. Get in shape (not HUGE, just athletic and lower bf)

2. Make money and save more

3. Have an awesome time with multiple plates

4. Read books - self improvement stuff

5. Make a shytload of friends

6. Go to Vegas

7. Try to not focus TOO much on women - they are a part of life and can bring enjoyment but it shouldn't consume me.

 

[Bayne05]

1. Get fit (been singing this song for 3yrs)
2. Approach more chicks (especially in groups)
3. Practice my confident voice (this is gonna make my approaches more effective)
4. Improve my game techniques (read, observe and DO, need some serious work on the DO part)
5. Be more social and get out my comfort zone (if I didn't need my laptop I would sell it)
6. Stop fapping (haven't fapped for more than a month)
7. Not letting failure affect my confidence/enthusiasm (the more rejections I get the more I hesitate to try again)
8. Learn French (Bonjour!)

 

[Huffman]

1. Have more fun
2. Stop trying to accomplish everything alone
3. Find more cool mates and a wingman or 2, we're going to push each other to approach more
4. Have a blast going out -> 1.

Also take some killer pics and set up online dating

 

[Starfvcks 64]

This is a good thread because it's always nice to have goals and a deadline puts them into realistic perspective. What is the "3 Second Rule"?
I'd like to last longer than three seconds in bed too.

My personal goals:
Move into my own place with no roommates
Record some songs
Fully commit to a workout routine
Become friends with a few coworkers
Figure out how to pick up college girls alone, without a wingman, regularly
Get a new plate while on date with a different plate
Film a sex tape that's good enough to keep
Attempt to learn Spanish, and practice as often as possible
Get girls to buy me things I want

 

[gravityeyelids]

(not going to include life/career/health goals, as the list might be too long...going to stick to pickup goals)

1) Increase the quality of the girls that I both approach/hit on, as well as those that I hook up with.
2) Rely less on alcohol to game. And in that same vain...
3) Focus more on day game.
4) Get laid off of Tinder (again)
5) have a summer romance that i can consistently hangout with/ hookup with
6) cut back on p0rn watching and masturbation
7) isolate my weakpoints, expose them, and fix them

 

[apprenticedj]

1. Lose weight and get in shape.
2. Get my finances in order, watch wasteful spending.
3. Carpe diem more often.
4. Spend quality time with family and friends.
5. Be more productinve around the house.
6. Limit my drinking and marijuana intake.

 

[Mr Wright]

1) Find a job after graduating
2) Start saving for travelling
3) Go out 3 times a week and approach, getting 3 new leads a week.
4) Read one book


I think those are realistic aims for a few months.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Make more money.