Actually I dont care if im only messing around with a chick and she has banged enough men before me, cause I am not serious about her and just having fun. But if she wants to get serious with me, there is no chance in hell.
I accidentely found out I was like number 41 with my exGF (and it sure felt like it). And that bothered me to no end, because those wore not emotional connections, just physical fullfilment.
I dont want an LTR with a slut, who does/did it without any feelings or connection. Just doing it for the sake of getting off is not what i call real LTR material. Sure i would fck here and hang some, but no way in hell am i going to be your BF.
I dont care if she had 10 or 20 BFs, but banging and having multiple ONS and then asking me for an LTR, cause shess so head over heals, is disgusting and repelling in my eyes. Telling me no one made her feel like she did when she was with me as an defensive mechanisme does not work, atleast on me.
No, I dont believe its insecurity from my side, I'm protecting my own interests and I hope other people realise this. I dont want to be around her friends and them looking at me like "look its #". If a chick wants a LTR only her past can tell if shes actually capable, a few flings ok. But having a rotation with 3 guys cause she cant pick and just wants them for the sex is not my dish. My ex actually brought it up that she had some men, but not that many so in fact she lied and i dont like beeing disrespected.
Maybe some one else would love the fact she got around and now wants to settle down with ya, but I dont.
