"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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your girlfriend or your family

bombtrack2007

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i'm going to try to keep this short. in the past, my ex-girlfriend would feud with my brother and his girlfriend. she would get angry with me because i wouldn't seem to be too pissed of at my bro. she would break up with me for it too. but i still could not get mad at my brother. it wasn't a big deal to me but it was to her. that was also one of her issues. i just can't get angry with my brother that easily. i love the guy. he's like my best friend. even when i do get mad at him, it doesn't last long. i just felt she was being dramatic. i could understand how she felt, but i would just feel she should grow some balls and let it go. when is something serious enough that you would have to put your foot down with your family?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AAAgent

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you're a good brother.

I've fvcked up many relationships with girls, friends, and family. The only ones that ever had my back through thick or thin without me even thinking about it is family.
 

sodbuster

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Some control freaks want to separate you from your family,friends etc. THEN, you have no one else to rely on[you depend on her]. When she pulls some over the top sh1t, there is no one to tell you she is wrong. No friends to support you,etc.
 

Chickfight

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Bro's over ho's, literally this time. She knows you're close with your brother, so if she wants to be with you she should put in an effort to get along with him.
I would never date a girl who didn't at least try to be nice to my friends.
 
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