Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ken785 said:Mifhunter is MAHON80305 or whatever his name is...he got his old account jacked!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135694mahon83050 said:I can't believe you haven't been banned yet! Yeah, I posted this sometime last week, but nobody responded so I thought I would try to spark up some discussion by starting it in a new thread.
Seriously, who would believe that I would actually tell someone my password? This is probably Deus or Shop trying to get me banned.
Get a life you troll!!
Good idea.comic_relief said:lets get back to the original meaning of this post.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ever onward said:Like I alluded to earlier, if you have that fear of loss with your wife/girlfriend ect. You've already doomed yourself to lose her.
I am taking a guess that these are the two statement that you are talking about.Ever onward said:And comic_relief, I wasn't addressing my point to you. I was just making that statement in general.
Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:Ever onward said:
No I blame his antics on him.:kick:Francisco d'Anconia said:Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
or he has a multiple personality disorder online. Now thats some crazy sh!t :trouble: :crazy:Francisco d'Anconia said:Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:
Thats why I only date ugly chicks. LOLMilfhunter77 said:is always going to be checked out and hit on by other men as long as she has a youthful looking appearance (not middle aged I mean) is NOT obese or is in possession of a less than average face.
Basically, it does not take much for a woman to be hit on.
I am posting this because I hear alot of people on this forum complain or get upset when other men checkout or hit on their girlfriend.
azanon said:I assess and make judgments based on assessments; not just simply "trust".